The Other Wes Moore: One Name, Two Fates
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Wes Moore knows that being a leader—both in your personal life and in the business world—comes down to one thing: personal responsibility. Drawing on his experiences as a leader in the public and private sectors and in the military, Moore explains that embracing your own personal responsibility – and holding yourself accountable for your choices – is a quality that makes great "transformational leaders": leaders who create a vision, then inspire and empower those around them to execute that vision. In December 2000, the Baltimore Sun ran a small piece about Wes Moore, a local student who had just received a Rhodes Scholarship. The same paper also ran a series of articles about four young men who had allegedly killed a police officer in an armed robbery. The police were still hunting for two of the suspects who had gone on the lam, a pair of brothers. One was named Wes Moore. Moore couldn’t shake off the unsettling coincidence, or the inkling that the two shared much more than space in the same newspaper. After following the story of the robbery, the manhunt, and the trial to its conclusion, he wrote a letter to the other Wes, now a convicted murderer serving a life sentence. His letter tentatively asked the questions that had been haunting him: Who are you? How did this happen? With stories of heart-wrenching losses and moments of surprising redemption, Moore describes a generation of boys trying to find their way in a challenging and, at times, hostile world. More at https://enthompson.unl.edu/
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- [00:00:18.968]>>> THE E.N. THOMPSON LECTURE
- [00:00:22.467]SERIES THE ADVERSITY OF POINTS,
- [00:00:25.234]OF NATIONAL AND POLICY ISSUES,
- [00:00:27.834]TO PROMOTE UNDERSTANDING AND
- [00:00:29.267]ENCOURAGE THE DEBATE WITH THE
- [00:00:31.067]UNIVERSITY AND THE STATE OF
- [00:00:32.734]NEBRASKA.
- [00:00:33.200]SINCE THE INCEPTION IN 1988,
- [00:00:37.033]HUNDREDS OF DISTINGUISHED
- [00:00:38.934]SPEAKERS HAVE INSPIRED AND
- [00:00:41.267]CHALLENGED US, MAKING THESE
- [00:00:44.467]FORUMS ONE OF THE [INAUDIBLE] IN
- [00:00:46.067]HIGHER EDUCATION.
- [00:00:48.000]IT ALL STARTED WHEN E.N.
- [00:00:49.334]THOMPSON, IMAGINED A FORUM ON
- [00:00:52.234]GLOBAL ISSUES THAT WOULD
- [00:00:53.501]INCREASE NEBRASKA'S
- [00:00:55.033]UNDERSTANDING OF CULTURES AND
- [00:00:56.567]EVENTS FROM AROUND THE WORLD.
- [00:00:59.334]HIS PERSPECTIVE WAS INFLUENCED
- [00:01:00.834]BY HIS TRAVELS, AND TO FIND A
- [00:01:05.132]UNITED NATIONS, AND HIS WORK FOR
- [00:01:06.767]INTERNATIONAL [INAUDIBLE].
- [00:01:09.434]AS PRESIDENT OF THE COOPER
- [00:01:10.801]FOUNDATION IN LINCOLN, JACK LED
- [00:01:14.067]THE FUNDING TO THE FOURMENT, AND
- [00:01:16.167]THE UNIVERSITY -- FORUM, AND THE
- [00:01:17.467]UNIVERSITY OF NEBRASKA, FOR
- [00:01:20.834]PERFORMING ARTS HAS [INAUDIBLE].
- [00:01:24.000]LATER, JACK AND HIS WIFE
- [00:01:26.868]CREATED THIS FUND, TO SUPPORT
- [00:01:30.200]THE FORUM, TODAY, MAJOR SUPPORT
- [00:01:31.968]IS PROVIDED BY THE COOPER
- [00:01:36.067]FOUNDATION, CENTER FOR
- [00:01:37.000]PERFORMING ARTS AND THE
- [00:01:39.133]UNIVERSITY OF NEBRASKA.
- [00:01:40.467]WE HOPE THE TALKS SPARK AN
- [00:01:42.767]EXCITING CONVERSATION AMONG YOU.
- [00:01:46.234]AND NOW, ON WITH THE SHOW.
- [00:01:57.968][APPLAUSE]
- [00:02:06.834]>>> GOOD EVENING LADIES AND
- [00:02:07.968]GENTLEMEN, I'M WITH THE
- [00:02:09.032]UNIVERSITY OF NEBRASKA LINCOLN,
- [00:02:11.567]AND IT'S MY PLEASURE TO WELCOME
- [00:02:14.868]YOU TO E.N. THOMPSON LECTURE
- [00:02:15.801]SERIES ON WORLD ISSUES.
- [00:02:18.300]FOR MORE THAN A QUARTER CENTURY,
- [00:02:20.334]THE COOPER FOUNDATION AND THE
- [00:02:21.567]UNIVERSITY HAVE PARTNERED WITH
- [00:02:22.834]THE PERFORMING ARTS TO MAKE THIS
- [00:02:25.534]FORUM POSSIBLE.
- [00:02:27.067]TONIGHT WE'RE PLEASED TO BE
- [00:02:29.000]JOINED BY THE COSPONSOR.
- [00:02:34.400]OASIS, IN THE MULTICULTURAL
- [00:02:36.133]CENTER, ENHANCES THE STUDENT'S
- [00:02:40.133]SUCCESS BY PROMOTING THE
- [00:02:43.968]DIVERSITY AWARENESS, AND SOCIAL
- [00:02:48.100]ANY KNOWLEDGE -- ENGAGEMENTS.
- [00:02:51.300]YEAH, GREAT ROUND OF APPLAUSE.
- [00:02:56.501]THIS YEAR, IT'S MY PLEASURE TO
- [00:03:00.601]INTRODUCE YOU A TRUE CHAMPION.
- [00:03:03.501]WES MOORE IS THE FOUNDER OF
- [00:03:06.133]BRIDGE, IT'S THE FIRST YEAR OF
- [00:03:08.367]COLLEGEN RAMP, AND HE'S THE NEW
- [00:03:12.434]YORK TIME'S BEST SELLING AUTHOR
- [00:03:14.801]OF TWO BOOKS.
- [00:03:17.567]HE GRADUATED FROM VALLEY FORD
- [00:03:22.567]MILITARY COLLEGE, AND FROM JOHN
- [00:03:24.934]HOP KIN'S UNIVERSITY.
- [00:03:27.901]HE COMPLETED A [INAUDIBLE] AFTER
- [00:03:31.534]THAT, HE SERVED AS A PARA
- [00:03:34.701]TROOPER IN THE U.S. ARMY, AND
- [00:03:37.601]PARTICIPATED IN A COMBAT TOUR OF
- [00:03:40.167]DUTY IN AFGHANISTAN.
- [00:03:41.200]CURRENTLY HE'S IN BALTIMORE WITH
- [00:03:42.434]HIS WIFE AND TWO CHILDREN.
- [00:03:44.067]THIS EVENING, AFTER HIS REMARKS,
- [00:03:46.968]YOU'LL HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO
- [00:03:49.100]ASK HIM QUESTIONS, VIA TWITTER.
- [00:03:51.667]THE TITLE OF TONIGHT'S
- [00:03:53.834]PRESENTATION IS THE OTHER WES
- [00:03:55.734]MOORE, ONE NAME TWO FACES.
- [00:03:58.567]NOW LET'S GIVE A ROUND OF
- [00:04:00.067]WELCOME TO WES MOORE.
- [00:04:01.133][APPLAUSE]
- [00:04:11.767]>> THANK YOU, GOOD EVENING.
- [00:04:16.767]THANK YOU, GOOD EVENING.
- [00:04:19.733]I AM SO INCREDIBLY EXCITED TO BE
- [00:04:23.601]HERE, AND I THANK YOU SO MUCH
- [00:04:26.667]FOR THE INTRODUCTIONS TO THE YOU
- [00:04:32.100]DID THE FORUM, AND TO HAVE ME
- [00:04:34.501]HERE.
- [00:04:35.334]THIS IS EXCITING FOR ME.
- [00:04:36.701]BECAUSE, NOT OFTEN, DO YOU GET A
- [00:04:39.000]CHANCE TO REALLY TALK ABOUT AN
- [00:04:42.300]ISSUE, THAT I REALLY FEEL IS ONE
- [00:04:45.868]OF THE ONES THAT I WAS ACTUALLY
- [00:04:47.334]MEANT TO DO.
- [00:04:49.567]AND THAT IS TO BE AN ACTIVIST.
- [00:04:52.501]AND I WASN'T REALLY QUITE SURE
- [00:04:54.334]WHAT THAT MEANT AT FIRST.
- [00:04:56.467]AND WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE AN
- [00:04:59.968]ACTIVIST?
- [00:05:00.400]WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO FIGHT FOR
- [00:05:02.501]SOMETHING, WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO
- [00:05:04.033]FIND THAT THING YOU'RE WILLING
- [00:05:05.634]TO GIVE EVERYTHING UP FOR, IN
- [00:05:07.701]ORDER TO SEE AN IMPACT.
- [00:05:09.901]THE BEAUTIFUL THING ABOUT IT,
- [00:05:13.501]THAT EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US
- [00:05:16.067]HAS THAT IN US.
- [00:05:18.033]OFTEN TIMES, HOW DO WE FIND THE
- [00:05:21.033]WILLFULLY OF SERVICE OR -- LEVEL
- [00:05:22.467]OF SERVICE OR THE THING WE DO.
- [00:05:26.501]THERE'S NO SINGLE THING WE'RE
- [00:05:28.000]SUPPOSED TO BE DOING.
- [00:05:30.033]BUT IT IS ABOUT FINDING THAT
- [00:05:31.834]THING THAT YOU KNOW, MAKES YOUR
- [00:05:33.901]HEART BEAT FASTER.
- [00:05:36.901]FIND THAT THING, THE PLACE THAT
- [00:05:39.767]YOU KNOW, WHERE YOUR GREATEST
- [00:05:41.934]SKILLS AND YOUR GREATEST JOYS
- [00:05:43.133]BEGIN TO OVERLAP WITH THE
- [00:05:45.133]WORLD'S GREATEST NEEDS.
- [00:05:47.000]AND THEN CHOOSE TO DO SOMETHING
- [00:05:47.901]ABOUT IT.
- [00:05:51.534]AND IN THE SAME BREATH, NEVER
- [00:05:55.734]FORGET WHO IT IS WE'RE SUPPOSED
- [00:05:57.033]TO BE FIGHTING FOR.
- [00:05:58.767]I'M THANKFUL FOR THE OPPORTUNITY
- [00:06:01.100]TO BE HERE TO TALK ABOUT THE
- [00:06:02.501]ISSUE ON A GRAND STRANGELYING.
- [00:06:05.000]THIS IS THE -- STAGE, THIS IS
- [00:06:07.701]THE SAME STAGE THAT [INAUDIBLE]
- [00:06:11.701]AND FIRST FOR ANYONE WHO GOT THE
- [00:06:13.968]DATES MIXED UP, I APOLOGIZE.
- [00:06:18.868][LAUGHTER]
- [00:06:19.567]>> BUT I AM EXCITED TO TALK
- [00:06:22.767]ABOUT WHO IT IS WE'RE SUPPOSED
- [00:06:24.067]TO BE FIGHTING FOR.
- [00:06:27.734]YOU KNOW, THE BOOK THAT WE WERE
- [00:06:29.734]SPEAKING ABOUT, THE BOOK CALLED
- [00:06:33.834]"THE OTHER WES MOORE" AND I'LL
- [00:06:35.868]TALK ABOUT WHAT THAT IS, AND
- [00:06:37.934]WHAT INSPIRED IT, IT WAS A
- [00:06:40.701]LEARNING EXPERIENCE FOR ME.
- [00:06:42.801]I KNOW HOW THE PUBLISHING
- [00:06:45.834]CENTURY -- I HAD NO IDEA HOW THE
- [00:06:49.501]PUBLISHING INDUSTRY WORKED.
- [00:06:50.434]WHAT YOU SEE ON THE INSIDE OF
- [00:06:51.834]THE BOOK, THAT'S WHAT THE AUTHOR
- [00:06:54.634]WANTS TO SHARE WITH THE WORLD.
- [00:06:56.434]THOSE ARE THE AUTHOR'S WORDS,
- [00:06:58.767]RIGHT?
- [00:06:59.467]EVERYTHING YOU SEE ON THE
- [00:07:01.400]OUTSIDE OF THE BOOK, THE COVER,
- [00:07:04.901]THE TITLE, THE AIR BRUSHED
- [00:07:08.501]AUTHOR PHOTOS, THE BLURBS, ALL
- [00:07:10.801]THAT STUFF, THAT'S WHAT THE
- [00:07:14.067]PUBLISHER WANTS TO SHARE WITH
- [00:07:15.167]THE WORLD.
- [00:07:16.067]THE PUBLISHER WILL HOLD ON TO
- [00:07:18.133]THOSE RIGHT FOR A REASON.
- [00:07:19.834]THE PUBLISHER, KNOWS THAT WHEN
- [00:07:22.701]YOU WALK IN A BOOK STORE AS A
- [00:07:25.634]CONSUMER, THEY HAVE 3.2 SECONDS
- [00:07:27.234]TO GET YOUR ATTENTION.
- [00:07:28.667]IF THEY DON'T GET YOUR ATTENTION
- [00:07:30.434]IN 3.2 SECONDS, YOU AS A
- [00:07:33.100]CONSUMER WILL KEEP ON WALKING
- [00:07:34.534]AND MOVE ON TO THE NEXT BOOK
- [00:07:36.767]P.M. THEY'LL DO WHATEVER -- NEXT
- [00:07:39.167]BOOK.
- [00:07:39.467]THEY'LL DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO
- [00:07:41.100]GET YOUR ATTENTION IN 3.2
- [00:07:44.367]SECONDS.
- [00:07:44.701]I DID NOT KNOW THAT.
- [00:07:46.501]I THOUGHT THEY CARED WHAT
- [00:07:48.434]AUTHORS THOUGHT.
- [00:07:49.701]SIX MONTHS BEFORE THE BOOK WAS
- [00:07:51.534]SET TO COME OUT, IT WAS CALLED
- [00:07:57.901]"UNTITLED" BY WES MOORE.
- [00:07:58.834]THEY CALLED ME IN, AND SITTING
- [00:08:01.133]AROUND THE TABLE, THEY SAID,
- [00:08:03.133]WHAT DO YOU THINK THE TITLE OF
- [00:08:05.434]THE BOOK SHOULD BE?
- [00:08:07.067]THEY WANTED ME TO FEEL I WAS
- [00:08:08.501]PART OF THE PROCESS.
- [00:08:09.534]YOU KNOW WHAT, I'M GLAD YOU
- [00:08:12.133]ASKED ME, THERE'S SIX TITLES
- [00:08:14.067]THAT I REALLY LIKE.
- [00:08:15.033]AND THEY'RE LIKE, WHAT ARE THEY?
- [00:08:18.467]OKAY, WHAT ABOUT, BALTIMORE
- [00:08:20.234]SONS.
- [00:08:20.534]OR ABOUT ALL THE DIFFERENCE.
- [00:08:23.601]OR WHAT ABOUT OUT OF MANY.
- [00:08:25.501]OR WHAT ABOUT END OF THE
- [00:08:27.601]INNOCENCE.
- [00:08:27.968]OR WHAT ABOUT LIFE AFTER DEATH.
- [00:08:30.234]OR -- I HAD ALL THESE TITLES,
- [00:08:32.767]AND I HAD REASONS FOR ALL OF
- [00:08:34.467]THEM.
- [00:08:34.767]AND I LOOKED AT THEM, SO YOU CAN
- [00:08:38.933]CHOOSE BETWEEN ANY OF TITLE,
- [00:08:40.634]BECAUSE I'M GOOD WITH ANY OF
- [00:08:42.701]THEM.
- [00:08:43.000]THEY LOOKED AT ME AND SAID,
- [00:08:44.968]THAT'S VERY KIND OF YOU.
- [00:08:47.033]AND THEY SAID, WE HAVE A BETTER
- [00:08:48.200]IDEA.
- [00:08:50.133]AND THEY SAID, WHAT DO YOU THINK
- [00:08:53.567]OF "THE OTHER WES MOORE".
- [00:08:56.767]AND I SAID, THAT MIGHT BE THE
- [00:08:59.734]DUMBEST BOOK TITLE I'VE HEARD IN
- [00:09:02.234]MY LIFE, TRUE STORY.
- [00:09:04.267]WHAT DON'T YOU LIKE ABOUT?
- [00:09:06.767]THERE'S A WHOLE BUNCH OF THINGS,
- [00:09:09.000]BUT LET ME START WITH THREE.
- [00:09:10.734]THE FIRST THING, THE STORY IS
- [00:09:13.400]NOT ABOUT THE TWO GIGS.
- [00:09:15.801]NOT JUST ABOUT ONE NAME.
- [00:09:18.234]IT'S NOT ABOUT ONE STREET OR ONE
- [00:09:22.634]NEIGHBORHOOD.
- [00:09:23.133]IT'S NOT A SOCIAL ECONOMIC GROUP
- [00:09:25.200]OR ONE DEMOGRAPHIC OR A
- [00:09:27.200]GENERATION.
- [00:09:27.601]IT'S ABOUT ALL OF US.
- [00:09:31.267]IT'S ABOUT THE DECISIONS THAT WE
- [00:09:33.300]MAKE IN OUR LIVES, THAT AMOUNT
- [00:09:35.868]TO THOSE WHO ARE IN OUR LIVES TO
- [00:09:37.501]HELP US MAKE THE DECISIONS.
- [00:09:39.601]BY PUTTING THE NAME IN THE TITLE
- [00:09:42.234]OF THE BOOK, YOU'RE NEGATING THE
- [00:09:45.467]ENTIRE FACT, THAT'S ONE.
- [00:09:49.033]SECOND THING, WHAT
- [00:09:52.133]SELF-RESPECTED AUTHOR YOU KNOW
- [00:09:54.133]PUT THEIR OWN NAME IN THE TITLE
- [00:09:56.400]OF THE BOOK THEY'VE WRITTEN.
- [00:09:58.100]IT SOUND RIDICULOUS, AND THE
- [00:10:00.534]THIRD THING IS, LISTEN, NO ONE
- [00:10:04.968]KNOWS WHO ONE WES MOORE IS.
- [00:10:10.334]SO WHY DOES ANYBODY CARE WHO THE
- [00:10:13.434]OTHER WES MOORE IS?
- [00:10:14.367]SO I SAID THIS TO THEM, AND THEY
- [00:10:16.334]SMILED AND SAID, THOSE ARE
- [00:10:17.968]REALLY GOOD POINTS.
- [00:10:22.634]THEY SAID THE PROBLEM THOUGH, IS
- [00:10:24.734]THAT YOU'RE MISSING THE POINT.
- [00:10:29.033]BECAUSE YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT,
- [00:10:30.167]IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU.
- [00:10:32.701]AND IT'S NOT ABOUT HIM.
- [00:10:38.200]THE NAME IS COMPLETELY
- [00:10:41.400]IRRELEVANT.
- [00:10:41.901]IT DOESN'T MATTER, THROW ANY
- [00:10:44.167]ANYTIME INSIDE -- ANY NAME
- [00:10:48.434]INSIDE OF THAT BOOK.
- [00:10:51.567]THE TRUTH IS THERE'S WES MOORE'S
- [00:10:54.567]THAT EXIST IN EVERY CITY, SCHOOL
- [00:10:56.667]AND OUR HOMES.
- [00:10:59.033]PEOPLE WHO ARE ONE DECISION
- [00:10:59.734]AWAY.
- [00:11:02.467]FROM GOING IN ONE DIRECTION OR A
- [00:11:06.334]COMPLETELY DIFFERENT DIRECTION.
- [00:11:08.434]KIDS WHO EVERY DAY ARE
- [00:11:10.667]STRADDLING THE LINE OF GREATNESS
- [00:11:13.200]AND THE PROBLEM IS THEY DON'T
- [00:11:14.901]EVEN KNOW IT.
- [00:11:16.167]THE MOST IMPORTANT THING OF THE
- [00:11:18.467]TITLE IS NOT THE NAME.
- [00:11:21.267]THE MOST IMPORTANT THING OF THE
- [00:11:24.434]TITLE IS THE OTHER.
- [00:11:29.067]THE FACT THAT OUR SOCIETY IS
- [00:11:30.734]FULL, OF OTHERS.
- [00:11:36.167]PEOPLE WHO MIGHT NOT LOOK LIKE
- [00:11:38.601]US.
- [00:11:38.901]PEOPLE WHO MIGHT NOT SPEAK LIKE
- [00:11:41.400]US, OR COME FROM ANOTHER PART OF
- [00:11:43.334]TOWN OR THE STATE OR COUNTRY.
- [00:11:45.801]OR ANOTHER PART OF THE WORLD.
- [00:11:51.234]BUT PEOPLE WHOSE DESTINY MATTERS
- [00:11:53.868]TO THE LONG TERM SAFETY AND
- [00:11:55.934]SECURITY AND GREATNESS OF OUR
- [00:11:58.801]COMMUNITY AS OURS DOES.
- [00:11:59.834]THE OTHERS.
- [00:12:05.334]THE ONES WHO WE ARE SURROUNDED
- [00:12:07.667]BY EVERY DAY, WHO NEED AND
- [00:12:10.400]DESERVES A CHAMPION.
- [00:12:14.234]AND THEY'RE SILENTLY LOOKING AT
- [00:12:16.501]US, AND ASKING IF WE'RE WILLING
- [00:12:18.434]TO BE THAT CHAMPION FOR THEM.
- [00:12:19.934]THE OTHERS.
- [00:12:24.300]AND FRANKLY, IT WASN'T SOMETHING
- [00:12:26.868]I THOUGHT ABOUT, OR SOMETHING I
- [00:12:27.968]UNDERSTOOD.
- [00:12:30.100]UNTIL I WAS FORCED TO.
- [00:12:35.601]BECAUSE THE DAY AFTER I JUST
- [00:12:38.267]RECEIVED A ROAD SCHOLARSHIP, I
- [00:12:39.868]WAS A SENIOR IN COLLEGE, THE DAY
- [00:12:43.501]AFTER, THE BALTIMORE SUN, IT WAS
- [00:12:47.067]THE NAME OF MY HOMETOWN PAPER, I
- [00:12:50.033]THOUGHT IT WOULD A CUTE PLAY ON
- [00:12:52.601]THAT, BUT THE BALTIMORE SUN
- [00:12:54.567]WROTE THIS ARTICLE OF A LOCAL
- [00:12:58.434]KID, WHO HAD JUST RECEIVED A
- [00:13:00.234]RHODES SCHOLARSHIP.
- [00:13:01.634]AND IN THE ARTICLE IT TALKED
- [00:13:04.133]ABOUT WHAT THE SCHOLARSHIP IS
- [00:13:05.801]AND HOW I WOULD BE ONE OF 32
- [00:13:08.434]AMERICAN STUDENTS GOING OVERSEAS
- [00:13:09.767]TO GO STUDY.
- [00:13:13.267]AND IN THE ARTICLE IT TALKED
- [00:13:14.734]ABOUT MY CHILDHOOD AND MY
- [00:13:15.400]BACKGROUND.
- [00:13:19.334]AND IT TALKED ABOUT THE FACT I
- [00:13:20.968]HAD TWO MEMORIES OF MY FATHER.
- [00:13:22.934]AND HOW THE FIST MEMORY -- THE
- [00:13:28.667]FIRST MEMORY WAS WHEN I WAS
- [00:13:30.100]CLOSE TO MY FOURTH BIRTHDAY, AND
- [00:13:32.334]MY MOTHER HAD A BUNCH OF RULES
- [00:13:33.601]IN HER HOUSE, BUT ONE OF THE BIG
- [00:13:36.467]RULES IS MEN DO NOT PUT THEIR
- [00:13:38.934]HANDS ON WOMEN, AND I REALIZED
- [00:13:41.901]WHEN I GOT OLDER, THE REASON SHE
- [00:13:45.701]WAS INSISTING ON THAT RULE, WAS
- [00:13:50.767]BECAUSE OF HER OWN PAST.
- [00:13:54.601]I HAVE AN OLDER SISTER, AND A
- [00:13:57.334]YOUNGER OLDER, AND ME AND MY
- [00:13:59.701]OLDER SISTER, WE WOULD GET IN
- [00:14:03.100]FIGHTS, I'M TALKING ABOUT CLOSED
- [00:14:05.067]FISTS MMA FIGHTS.
- [00:14:07.901]AND MY MOTHER EVERY TIME SHELLED
- [00:14:10.567]SEE ME FIGHTING AND YELLED AT
- [00:14:12.734]ME, AND GRABBED ME.
- [00:14:14.133]DON'T PUT YOUR HANDS ON WOMEN.
- [00:14:16.334]AND I WOULD EXPLAIN, BUT MOM,
- [00:14:18.367]THIS IS NOT A WOMAN.
- [00:14:22.734]THIS IS NICKY, THIS IS
- [00:14:24.834]DIFFERENT.
- [00:14:25.200]AND MY MOTHER DIDN'T SEE THE
- [00:14:27.133]DIFFERENCE, AND FINALLY ONE DAY,
- [00:14:29.234]I'M SITTING THERE MINDING MY OWN
- [00:14:31.767]BUSINESS, AND NICKY GETS IN MY
- [00:14:35.534]FACE, AND SHE WOULDN'T STOP, AND
- [00:14:38.534]WHEN I CAUGHT HER, I PUNCHED
- [00:14:40.634]HER, AND I CONNECTED AND I
- [00:14:42.567]TURNED AROUND AND SAW MY MOM.
- [00:14:45.901]I KNEW IT WAS GOING TO GET REAL
- [00:14:48.200]BAD, REAL QUICK.
- [00:14:49.100]SHE STARTED TO COME AFTER ME,
- [00:14:51.534]AND I STARTED TO RUN.
- [00:14:53.000]THE BEDROOM WE WERE IN, WAS
- [00:14:56.200]BASICALLY A CLOSET.
- [00:14:58.467]THAT KWERPTED TO A BEDROOM.
- [00:15:00.734]-- CONVERTED INTO A BEDROOM.
- [00:15:04.968]SO I'M RUNNING AROUND THE ROOM,
- [00:15:07.467]TRYING TO FIND A PLACE TO HIDE
- [00:15:09.767]AND THERE'S NO PLACE TO HIDE.
- [00:15:12.033]AND FINALLY I SIT DOWN, AND GET
- [00:15:14.734]MYSELF MENTALLY PREPARED OF
- [00:15:16.601]WHAT'S ABOUT TO HAPPEN.
- [00:15:18.400]AND HEAR FOOT STEPS AND THE
- [00:15:20.167]KNOCK ON THE DOOR, AND THE DOOR
- [00:15:21.434]OPENS UP, AND MY FATHER WALKS IN
- [00:15:23.567]THE ROOM.
- [00:15:24.601]AND WHEN HE WALKED IN THE ROOM,
- [00:15:26.934]HE SAT ON THE BED, AND HE PUT ME
- [00:15:29.434]ON HIS LAP.
- [00:15:31.801]AND HE STARTED TO EXPLAIN TO ME
- [00:15:34.300]WHAT I HAD DONE SO WRONG.
- [00:15:37.634]WHAT MY JOB IS TO PROTECT WOMAN,
- [00:15:39.734]AND NOT TO HIT THEM.
- [00:15:41.334]MY JOB IS TO PROTECT MY FAMILY,
- [00:15:43.868]AND NOT TO GO AFTER THEM.
- [00:15:47.434]AND HE TOLD ME THAT I NEEDED TO
- [00:15:50.367]GO DOWN STAIRS TO APOLOGIZE TO
- [00:15:52.267]MY MOTHER AND SISTER, BUT HE
- [00:15:54.434]WOULD COME WITH ME.
- [00:15:57.467]AND AS WE'RE WALKING DOWN
- [00:16:01.267]STAIRS, I'M HOLDING ON HIS HAND,
- [00:16:04.033]AND MAY ENTIRE -- MY ENTIRE HAND
- [00:16:06.501]WRAPPED AROUND HIS FINGER.
- [00:16:08.234]HE HAD A FUNNY WAY OF WALKING,
- [00:16:10.467]AND I'M 4, AND I'M STICKING MY
- [00:16:14.634]CHEST OUT TOO.
- [00:16:17.300]MY FATHER WAS EVERYTHING I EVER
- [00:16:18.434]WANTED TO BE.
- [00:16:20.100]AND THE ONLY OTHER MEMORY I HAD
- [00:16:22.701]OF HIM, WAS ABOUT SIX MONTHS
- [00:16:25.167]LATER WHEN I WATCHED HIM DIE.
- [00:16:30.467]AND AS TOUGH I THOUGHT I HAD IT,
- [00:16:32.701]OR MY SISTERS, THE PERSON WHO
- [00:16:35.234]REALLY HAD IT TOUGHEST WAS MY
- [00:16:36.167]MOM.
- [00:16:39.734]BECAUSE NOW HERE SHE WAS, A
- [00:16:43.868]WIDOW WITH THREE CHILDREN, WHO
- [00:16:45.834]WAS NOW GOING TO RAISE THE KIDS
- [00:16:47.634]ON HER OWN AND IN NO WAY, THIS
- [00:16:51.200]WAS THE LIFE SHE HAD EXPECTED OR
- [00:16:53.300]THE LIFE SHE HAD PREPARED FOR.
- [00:16:55.767]AND SHE WAS HAVING A DIFFICULT
- [00:16:57.434]TIME WITH THE TRANSITION.
- [00:17:00.267]AND FINALLY SHE CALLED UP THE
- [00:17:02.334]PARENTS, MY GRANDPARENTS UP IN
- [00:17:05.634]THE SOUTH BRONX, AND SAID SHE
- [00:17:08.367]NEEDED HELP.
- [00:17:09.032]AND THEY GAVE HER THE ANSWER, TO
- [00:17:11.666]BRING THE KIDS UP THERE.
- [00:17:14.166]I FOUND MYSELF GETTING LOST,
- [00:17:16.200]IMMEDIATELY AFTER GOING UP
- [00:17:18.300]THERE.
- [00:17:18.601]I FOUND MYSELF PICKING AND
- [00:17:21.867]CHOOSING WHICH DASZ WERE WORTH
- [00:17:23.901]-- DAYS WERE WORTHWHILE TO GO TO
- [00:17:26.534]SCHOOL.
- [00:17:27.000]I HURT PEOPLE THAT ACTUALLY
- [00:17:29.000]LOVED ME, SO I COULD IMPRESS
- [00:17:31.868]PEOPLE THAT COULD CARE LESS
- [00:17:33.467]ABOUT ME.
- [00:17:34.501]BY THE TIME I WAS 11 YEARS OLD,
- [00:17:36.901]WAS THE FIRST TIME I FELT
- [00:17:39.100]HANDCUFFS ON MY WRISTS.
- [00:17:41.267]11.
- [00:17:41.834]AND BY THE TIME I WAS 13 YEARS
- [00:17:44.267]OLD, I FOUND OUT WHEN MY MOM
- [00:17:47.501]MAKES THREATS, THAT SHE'S NOT
- [00:17:51.167]PLAYING.
- [00:17:51.501]BECAUSE SHE HAD PLANNED TO PUT
- [00:17:54.033]ME IN MILITARY SCHOOL, AND SHE
- [00:17:56.734]SAID, IF YOU DON'T GET IT
- [00:17:58.367]TOGETHER, I'LL SEND YOU TO
- [00:18:00.367]MILITARY SCHOOL, AND I WOULD
- [00:18:01.634]LOOK ADDED HER, AND I WOULD SAY,
- [00:18:04.000]I'M WORKING HARDER.
- [00:18:06.934]AND BY THE TIME I WAS 9, SHE
- [00:18:11.267]WOULD GIVE ME BROCHURES, AND I
- [00:18:17.567]KEPT GETTING WORSE.
- [00:18:19.133]AND I KEPT GETTING MORE LOST.
- [00:18:21.501]AND FINALLY WHEN I WAS 13, SHE
- [00:18:23.000]CAME UP TO ME, AND WAS LIKE, I
- [00:18:26.267]CAN'T DO THIS ANYMORE, I'M
- [00:18:28.300]SENDING YOU TO MILITARY SCHOOL.
- [00:18:30.434]I SAID, I CAN SEE I'M HURTING
- [00:18:34.300]YOU, AND I'LL WORK HARDER.
- [00:18:35.801]AND SHE'S LIKE, NO, YOU'RE GOING
- [00:18:38.100]NEXT WEEK.
- [00:18:38.767]SHE STARTED TO PACK UP MY STUFF
- [00:18:41.934]AND EVEN WHEN WE GOT IN THE CAR,
- [00:18:47.501]I THOUGHT WE WOULD DRIVE AROUND
- [00:18:48.267]THE BLOCK A FEW TIMES AND SHE
- [00:18:51.100]DROVE ALL THE WAY TO
- [00:18:53.601]PENNSYLVANIA.
- [00:18:54.033]AND AT SOME POINT, IT WASN'T
- [00:18:55.701]FUNNY ANYMORE, AND SHE SHOWS UP
- [00:18:58.868]AT THIS SCHOOL WITH BIG BLACK
- [00:19:01.968]GATES.
- [00:19:02.267]AND IT WAS WILD, IN THERE, THEY
- [00:19:05.167]WOULD ALWAYS TELL US, IF YOU
- [00:19:06.501]DON'T LIKE IT THERE, THE TRAIN
- [00:19:10.234]STATION, YOU CAN GO ANYTIME YOU
- [00:19:11.934]WANT.
- [00:19:12.367]EVERY TIME THEY TURNED THEIR
- [00:19:15.467]BACK, I WOULD RUN TO THE WOOD
- [00:19:17.734]AND TRIED TO FIND THE TRAIN
- [00:19:19.167]STATION, AND I WOULD GET LOST.
- [00:19:21.501]FINALLY AFTER FOUR DAYS, I HAD
- [00:19:23.467]RUN AWAY FIVE TIMES.
- [00:19:24.767]I WAS IN MY ROOM AND MY ROOMMATE
- [00:19:27.234]WAS THERE, AND HE CALLED TO
- [00:19:31.100]ATTENTION.
- [00:19:31.501]AND MY [INAUDIBLE] SAID, TO MY
- [00:19:34.267]ROOMMATE, GET OUT, I HAVE TO
- [00:19:37.367]TALK TO MOORE.
- [00:19:38.501]I'M STANDING AT ATTENTION, AND
- [00:19:39.801]I'M THINKING, THIS IS NOT GOOD.
- [00:19:42.200]BECAUSE WHATEVER IS ABOUT TO GO
- [00:19:45.133]DOWN, THERE'S NO WITNESSES.
- [00:19:47.067]I'M STANDING AT ATTENTION AND
- [00:19:48.501]WAITING.
- [00:19:48.868]AND HE TELLS ME TO SIT DOWN, AND
- [00:19:50.934]HE SAID, LISTEN, MOORE, IT'S
- [00:19:53.200]OBVIOUS YOU DON'T WANT TO BE
- [00:19:54.767]HERE.
- [00:19:55.100]AND QUITE HONESTLY, WE DON'T
- [00:19:57.267]WANT YOU HERE EITHER.
- [00:19:58.834]I'VE DRAWN YOU A MAP ON HOW TO
- [00:20:02.734]GET TO THE TRAIN STATION.
- [00:20:04.901]TRUE, AND HE PULLS OUT A MAP.
- [00:20:06.767]IT HAS A LEGEND ON IT, AND HAND
- [00:20:09.934]WRITTEN NOTES, LANDMARKS, AND HE
- [00:20:13.400]PULLS THIS THING OUT, LIKE HE
- [00:20:16.701]HANDED ME A POWERBALL TICKET.
- [00:20:18.367]AND THERE'S TEARS OUT OF MY EYES
- [00:20:21.434]AND I'M LIKE, LISTEN, I'LL NEVER
- [00:20:23.501]FORGET YOU.
- [00:20:25.868]I'M LIKE, WHEN YOU GET OUT, LET
- [00:20:28.968]ME KNOW, WE'LL GRAB LUNCH.
- [00:20:30.501]I'M LIKE, SO EXCITED, I WANTED
- [00:20:35.334]NOTHING MORE THAN TO GO HOME.
- [00:20:36.501]THAT NIGHT, I PLANNED THE GREAT
- [00:20:40.767]SCAPE, AND -- ESCAPE, AND THEY
- [00:20:43.501]FOUND ME AT 1:00 IN THE MORNING.
- [00:20:45.234]THE MAP WAS FAKE, IT SENT ME TO
- [00:20:48.834]THE MIDDLE OF THE WOODS.
- [00:20:52.334]AND I'M SO ANGRY AT THIS POINT.
- [00:20:56.400]I -- FIRST OF ALL, I'M LIKE, I'M
- [00:20:59.000]THE BUTT OF THE SOCIAL
- [00:21:01.067]EXPERIMENT.
- [00:21:01.467]BUT ALSO, I'M ANGRY, BECAUSE I
- [00:21:04.267]FEEL LIKE, I'M TRYING TO TELL
- [00:21:05.767]THE PEOPLE WHAT I NEED AND
- [00:21:07.133]NOBODY IS LISTENING TO ME.
- [00:21:08.701]I DON'T WANT TO BE HERE.
- [00:21:12.567]AND THEY'RE NOT LISTENING TO ME.
- [00:21:16.033]AND SO FINALLY THEY FOUND ME IN
- [00:21:18.300]THE WOODS AND THEY BROUGHT ME
- [00:21:21.267]BACK, AND WE'RE ALLOWED NO
- [00:21:22.801]OUTSIDE COMMUNICATION, NO PHONE
- [00:21:27.968]CALLS, NOTHING.
- [00:21:28.767]YOU EITHER SUCCEED AS A TEAM OR
- [00:21:30.434]FAIL AS A TEAM AND THE CHOICE IS
- [00:21:34.200]COMPLETELY YOURS.
- [00:21:35.434]SO THEY SAID, MOORE, YOU HAVE
- [00:21:37.267]FIVE MINUTES TO CALL ANYONE, BUT
- [00:21:39.367]YOU HAVE FIVE MINUTES.
- [00:21:40.767]I CALLED THE ONLY NUMBER I KNEW.
- [00:21:45.868]WHICH WAS MY MOM.
- [00:21:47.901]SHE WASN'T EXPECTING TO HEAR
- [00:21:50.834]FROM ME IN EIGHT WEEKS.
- [00:21:53.133]AND NOW IT'S DAY FOUR.
- [00:21:55.634]I SAID, THANKS FOR THIS
- [00:21:57.634]WONDERFUL OPPORTUNITY, BUT I'M
- [00:21:58.734]WONDERFUL TO COME HOME.
- [00:22:00.300]DO YOU NEED DIRECTIONS?
- [00:22:05.234]I'M TRYING TO EXPLAIN TO THIS
- [00:22:08.667]WOMAN, WHO WAS RAISING THREE
- [00:22:09.934]KIDS ON HER OWN, WHAT SHE NEEDS
- [00:22:13.300]TO DO TO MAKE MY LIFE EASIER.
- [00:22:17.067]AND SHE TOLD ME.
- [00:22:19.133]SHE SAID, TOO MANY PEOPLE HAVE
- [00:22:21.400]SACRIFICED FOR YOU TO BE THERE.
- [00:22:23.968]AND TOO MANY PEOPLE ARE ROOTING
- [00:22:25.601]FOR YOU.
- [00:22:28.133]AND YOU'VE GOT TO UNDERSTAND
- [00:22:29.834]IT'S NOT ALL ABOUT YOU.
- [00:22:38.200]SHE HELPED ME TO UNDERSTAND,
- [00:22:42.667]THAT THE ONLY WAY I WAS TO MAKE
- [00:22:44.534]IT, WAS IF MY FRIEND AND TWO
- [00:22:47.067]BROTHERS WERE THERE TO PUSH ME,
- [00:22:50.100]AND THE ONLY WAY THEY WOULD MAKE
- [00:22:53.434]IT, IS IF I PUSHED THEM.
- [00:22:55.834]SHE HELPED ME AND THEY HELPED ME
- [00:22:57.934]TO UNDERSTAND, THAT WE LIVE IN A
- [00:23:01.300]COMPLETELY INTERCONNECTED
- [00:23:03.434]SOCIETY.
- [00:23:03.834]AND THE ONLY WAY, THAT MY
- [00:23:08.434]PRESENCE WOULD MAKE SENSE, WAS
- [00:23:11.467]IF I PUT MYSELF IN A POSITION
- [00:23:13.501]FOR IT TO MAKE SENSE.
- [00:23:17.667]BY THE END OF THE FIRST YEAR, I
- [00:23:21.801]WAS DOING BETTER ACADEMICALLY.
- [00:23:24.934]STUFF STARTED TO MAKE SENSE, AND
- [00:23:27.367]I COULD PLAY SPORTS, BECAUSE I
- [00:23:29.200]WASN'T ON PROBATION ANYMORE.
- [00:23:30.334]AND THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE,
- [00:23:33.667]PEOPLE ASKED MY MOM HOW I WAS
- [00:23:36.834]DOING, SHE COULD SAY, HE'S DOING
- [00:23:38.701]OKAY, AND NOT BE LYING.
- [00:23:40.200]AND THAT MEANT SOMETHING.
- [00:23:44.300]AND OFTEN TIMES, PEOPLE SAY,
- [00:23:46.334]WHAT ABOUT THE FACT YOU GOT
- [00:23:47.567]PICKED UP AND MOVED AND SENT
- [00:23:49.834]HERE AND WHATEVER.
- [00:23:51.067]DID THAT MAKE THE DIFFERENCE IN
- [00:23:52.467]YOUR LIFE AND I TELL THEM, WHAT
- [00:23:55.033]HAPPENED TO ME, WASN'T THE FACT
- [00:23:57.667]THAT I WAS PHYSICALLY
- [00:23:59.167]TRANSPORTED, WHAT HAPPENED TO
- [00:24:01.267]ME, WASN'T THAT I WAS PICKED UP
- [00:24:03.067]AND MOVED AROUND.
- [00:24:04.601]I KNOW THAT PEOPLE THOUGHT THAT
- [00:24:05.868]WAS THE ANSWER AND ALL THEY DID
- [00:24:07.734]WAS CRASH AND BURN.
- [00:24:11.634]WHAT HAPPENED TO ME WAS I FOUND
- [00:24:13.634]MYSELF SURROUNDED BY PEOPLE.
- [00:24:17.200]STARTING WITH MY MOM AND
- [00:24:20.734]GRANDPARENTS, BUT EVENTUALLY
- [00:24:22.300]LEADING TO THIS AMAZING STRING
- [00:24:23.701]OF ROLE MODELS AND MENTORS, AND
- [00:24:26.834]PEOPLE WHO TAUGHT ME TO
- [00:24:28.234]UNDERSTAND, THE WORLD IS BIGGER
- [00:24:29.934]THAN WHAT WAS IN FRONT OF ME.
- [00:24:32.033]PEOPLE WHO HELPED ME TO
- [00:24:33.334]UNDERSTAND, THAT WE LIVE IN A
- [00:24:36.434]BIG AND BEAUTIFUL BRIGHT WORLD
- [00:24:37.801]AND I HAVE A PLACE IN IT.
- [00:24:41.000]THERE WOULD BE NO ACCIDENT OF
- [00:24:43.634]BIRTHS, NOT BEING BLACK OR POOR
- [00:24:45.334]OR FATHERLESS.
- [00:24:47.367]THAT WAS EVER GOING TO DEFINE ME
- [00:24:48.567]OR LIMIT ME.
- [00:24:52.033]AND SO IN ESSENCE, WHAT THEY DID
- [00:24:55.567]WAS THEY TOLD ME WHAT IT MEANT
- [00:24:56.767]TO BE FREE.
- [00:25:01.100]SO FAST FORWARD, I ENDED UP
- [00:25:03.934]STAYING WITH THE OPTION TO GO
- [00:25:05.400]BACK TO SCHOOL, IN BALTIMORE,
- [00:25:07.667]AND I ENDED UP FINISHING SCHOOL
- [00:25:10.868]AND JOINED THE ARMY, AND WENT TO
- [00:25:14.067]JUNIOR COLLEGE, AND THE
- [00:25:16.167]BALTIMORE SUN WAS WRITING AN
- [00:25:17.667]ARTICLE OF THE LOCAL KID WHO
- [00:25:19.501]JUST GOT THIS SCHOLARSHIP.
- [00:25:21.801]BUT AT THE SAME TIME, THEY WERE
- [00:25:25.501]WRITING A WHOLE SERIES OF
- [00:25:27.534]ARTICLES OF FOUR GUYS WHO ONE
- [00:25:29.901]DAY WALKED INTO A JEWELRY STORE.
- [00:25:31.701]AND THE FIRST TWO WALKED IN AND
- [00:25:34.133]REACHED IN THE COATS AND PULLED
- [00:25:35.267]OUT A GUN AND COCKED THE GUNS
- [00:25:37.868]BACK, AND POINTED THE GUNS TO
- [00:25:39.467]EVERYONE INSIDE THE STORE, AND
- [00:25:41.834]SAID, GET ON THE GROUND AND PUT
- [00:25:45.467]YOUR HANDS ON THE HEADS.
- [00:25:47.601]AND EVERYONE INSIDE THE STORE,
- [00:25:49.934]PUT THEIR HEADS DOWN AND GLASS
- [00:25:52.968]SMASHED AROUND.
- [00:25:53.767]TEN SECONDS LATER, TWO OTHERS
- [00:25:55.200]WALKED IN THE STORE, THEY
- [00:25:57.868]REACHED IN THEIR COATS AND
- [00:25:59.767]PULLED OUT [INAUDIBLE].
- [00:26:01.267]ONE GUY WITH A GUY, ONE WITH A
- [00:26:06.534]MALLET, ONE WENT TO THE LEFT AND
- [00:26:08.968]ONE WENT TO THE RIGHT.
- [00:26:10.701]THEY MET IN THE BACK OF THE
- [00:26:13.000]STORE, WITH OVER $400,000 OF
- [00:26:17.968]JEWELRY.
- [00:26:18.300]ALL FOUR RAN OUT TO THE PARKING
- [00:26:20.467]LOT.
- [00:26:23.601]ONE OF THE PEOPLE THAT WAS
- [00:26:24.534]INSIDE THE STORE THAT TAKE --
- [00:26:28.000]THAT DAY, WAS AN OFF DUTY POLICE
- [00:26:32.434]OFFICER, WHO WAS MOONLIGHTING AS
- [00:26:36.267]A SECURITY GUARD.
- [00:26:38.400]HE WAS A THREE TIME RECIPIENT OF
- [00:26:40.434]POLICE OFFICER OF THE WROER.
- [00:26:45.000]-- YEAR, HE WAS ALSO THE FATHER
- [00:26:47.634]OF FIVE, WHO JUST HAD TRIPLETS,
- [00:26:51.033]AND THE REASON HE WAS WORKING
- [00:26:53.367]THAT DAY, IT WAS HIS DAY OFF,
- [00:26:55.634]AND HE TOOK ON A SECOND JOB TO
- [00:26:58.834]MAKE EXTRA MONEY FOR HIS FAMILY.
- [00:27:03.200]HE GOT OFF THE GROUND AND DREW
- [00:27:08.033]HIS WEAPON, AND RAN OUT TO FIND
- [00:27:11.667]THE MEN, BUT HE DIDN'T REALIZE
- [00:27:14.267]THE CAR HE WAS KNEELING NEXT TO
- [00:27:15.701]WAS THE CAR THEIFIES WERE IN.
- [00:27:18.234]-- THE GUYS WERE IN.
- [00:27:20.734]AND THE WINDOW ROLLED DOWN, AND
- [00:27:23.801]HE WAS SHOT THREE TIMES AT
- [00:27:26.634]POINT-BLANK RANGE AND KILLED
- [00:27:27.334]INSTANTLY.
- [00:27:33.267]THERE WAS A 12 DAY NATIONAL MAN
- [00:27:37.400]HUNT FOR THE MEN.
- [00:27:40.501]THEY WERE EVENTUALLILY CAUGHT,
- [00:27:42.267]TRIED, AND SENTENCED FOR THE
- [00:27:43.000]CRIME.
- [00:27:45.467]WAS THE GUY WHOSE NAME WAS ALSO
- [00:27:47.334]WES MOORE.
- [00:27:52.033]AND THE MORE I LEARNED ABOUT
- [00:27:54.100]HIM, AND ABOUT THIS CRIME AND
- [00:27:55.567]THE MORE I LEARN OF THIS
- [00:27:59.334]TRAGEDIES, THE MORE I REALIZED
- [00:28:01.367]HOW MUCH MORE WE HAD IN COMMON
- [00:28:02.734]THAN JUST OUR NAMES.
- [00:28:04.067]AND ONE DAY, I DECIDED TO WRITE
- [00:28:06.200]HIM A NOTE.
- [00:28:09.701]AND THE FIRST NOTE I WROTE HIM
- [00:28:12.067]WAS LIKE, HEY WES, MY NAME IS
- [00:28:15.300]WES, HERE'S HOW I HEARD ABOUT
- [00:28:17.634]YOU, AND I HAD A WHOLE LIST OF
- [00:28:19.067]QUESTIONS THAT I ASKED HIM.
- [00:28:20.734]AND A MONTH LATER, I GOT A
- [00:28:23.901]LETTER BACK FROM THE
- [00:28:25.033]CORRECTIONAL INSTITUTION.
- [00:28:28.934]ONE THING, THE LETTER I GOT BACK
- [00:28:31.167]FROM HIM, IF HE WROTE THE LETTER
- [00:28:35.901]IN CRAYON OR INSTEAD OF USING
- [00:28:38.300]WORDS HE USED PICTURES.
- [00:28:39.467]IF THAT'S THE ONE I WOULD HAVE
- [00:28:42.434]GOTTEN BACK, I MIGHT HAVE LOOKED
- [00:28:43.534]AT IT, AND SAID, I GUESS I GET
- [00:28:46.501]IT.
- [00:28:46.767]I GUESS IT MAKES SENSE.
- [00:28:50.334]THE PROBLEM IS I NEVER RECEIVED
- [00:28:52.400]THAT LETTER FROM HIM.
- [00:28:53.567]THE PROBLEM IS THE LETTER I DID
- [00:28:55.767]RECEIVE FROM HIM, IS ONE OF THE
- [00:28:58.100]MOST INTERESTING AND ARTICULATE
- [00:29:01.834]LETTER I'VE RECEIVED IN MY LIFE.
- [00:29:04.834]AND IT ONLY LED TO MORE
- [00:29:07.367]QUESTIONS.
- [00:29:07.734]AND THE ONE LETTER TURNED INTO
- [00:29:09.634]DOZENS OF LETTERS, AND DOZENS OF
- [00:29:12.400]VISITS, AND NOW I'VE KNOWN HIM
- [00:29:14.000]FOR OVER A DECADE.
- [00:29:16.734]AND IT'S INTERESTING, BECAUSE I
- [00:29:18.300]THINK OFTEN TIMES, PEOPLE SEE
- [00:29:19.934]WHAT WAS THE THING, WHAT WAS THE
- [00:29:22.467]DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU TWO?
- [00:29:24.100]I REMEMBER, SOMEONE LAST YEAR
- [00:29:25.934]CAME UP AND SAID, I WANT TO LET
- [00:29:28.267]YOU KNOW, I DIDN'T LIKE YOUR
- [00:29:29.901]BOOK.
- [00:29:30.200]I'M LIKE, THAT'S COOL.
- [00:29:35.267]WHAT DIDN'T YOU LIKE ABOUT IT?
- [00:29:37.334]THEY SAID, YOU TELL THE STORY
- [00:29:38.667]AND AT THE END OF IT, YOU DON'T
- [00:29:42.067]GIVE US A SINGLE ANSWER.
- [00:29:43.767]WHAT'S ONE THING TO DO TO HELP
- [00:29:45.901]KIDS GO ONE WAY OR THE OTHER
- [00:29:48.100]WAY?
- [00:29:48.534]YOU DON'T GIVE AN ANSWER.
- [00:29:50.667]I SAID, BECAUSE THERE'S NO
- [00:29:51.701]SINGLE ANSWER.
- [00:29:55.267]RAISING KIDS IS AN AMAZINGLY
- [00:29:57.100]COMPLICATED.
- [00:30:00.000]WHEN YOU HAPPEN TO RAISE KIDS IN
- [00:30:02.033]THE MOST DANGEROUS COMMUNITIES
- [00:30:03.501]OF THE COUNTRY, IT'S THAT MUCH
- [00:30:05.367]MORE COMPLICATED.
- [00:30:06.801]I WILL DEBATE WITH ANYONE, WHO
- [00:30:10.000]WANTS TO TELL ME THAT EVERY
- [00:30:11.934]CHILD IS BORN WITH THE SAME
- [00:30:13.868]AMOUNT OF ASSETS. IF ANYONE
- [00:30:16.767]BELIEVES THAT, THERE'S
- [00:30:18.167]COMMUNITIES IN THIS STATE ALONE,
- [00:30:20.267]I WOULD LOVE TO TAKE YOU TO AND
- [00:30:22.434]HEAR YOU MAKE THAT SAME
- [00:30:23.567]ARGUMENT.
- [00:30:23.934][APPLAUSE]
- [00:30:29.968]>> I AM A VERY FIRM BELIEVER,
- [00:30:32.567]THE POTENTIAL IN THIS COUNTRY IS
- [00:30:35.200]UNIVERSAL.
- [00:30:35.567]OPPORTUNITY IS NOT.
- [00:30:38.100]AND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THOSE
- [00:30:40.334]TWO, THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE
- [00:30:42.934]TWO, BETWEEN POTENTIAL AND WHERE
- [00:30:44.634]WE ALL END UP, IS WHERE WE ALL
- [00:30:48.334]COLLECTIVELY COME IN.
- [00:30:50.167]IT'S WHERE WE COLLECTIVELY COME
- [00:30:52.300]IN WHEN WE SAY, WE'RE GOING TO
- [00:30:53.734]CHOOSE TO PAY ATTENTION, AND NOT
- [00:30:56.267]SIMPLY BE APATHETIC.
- [00:30:58.934]THAT WE'RE GOING TO CHOOSE, MAKE
- [00:31:02.400]A VERY DELIBERATE DECISION TO
- [00:31:05.467]UNDERSTAND HOW THESE ROADS DO
- [00:31:07.701]DIVERGE AND THEN WHERE CAN WE
- [00:31:09.834]COME IN TO SERVICE BRIDGES AND
- [00:31:12.200]GUIDES AND SUPPORT.
- [00:31:16.200]WHAT ARE THOSE THINGS?
- [00:31:18.501]WHO ARE THOSE THINGS?
- [00:31:19.868]WHO ARE THOSE PEOPLE?
- [00:31:21.367]AND WHEN WE TALK ABOUT AND THINK
- [00:31:24.234]ABOUT THE OTHERS, HOW DO WE MAKE
- [00:31:27.067]SURE AS WE ARE TALKING ABOUT
- [00:31:28.534]THEM, AND THINKING ABOUT THEM,
- [00:31:31.400]THEY'RE PART OF THE
- [00:31:32.634]CONVERSATION, AND NOT JUST
- [00:31:33.534]SUBJECT OF THE CONVERSATION.
- [00:31:36.634]AND SO WHILE I KNOW THERE'S
- [00:31:38.601]NEVER GOING TO BE A SINGLE
- [00:31:41.467]THING, I KNOW THERE AREN'T
- [00:31:44.501]THINGS THAT DO FUNDAMENTALLY
- [00:31:48.534]MATTER.
- [00:31:49.400]ONE OF THOSE THINGS, THAT DOES
- [00:31:52.634]FUNDAMENTALLY MATTER IS
- [00:31:53.267]EDUCATION MATTERS.
- [00:31:56.801]AND IT'S NOT EVEN -- IT'S NOT
- [00:31:59.167]JUST FROM THE TRADITIONAL OH, IF
- [00:32:02.000]YOU GET A DEGREE THAT YOU'LL
- [00:32:04.968]HAVE X AMOUNT OF EARNING POWER
- [00:32:08.067]MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE.
- [00:32:09.868]THAT'S ALL TRUE, AND FACTUAL,
- [00:32:13.601]BUT HERE'S ALSO WHY IT MATTERS.
- [00:32:16.667]BECAUSE EDUCATION ISN'T SIMPLY
- [00:32:17.968]OF WHAT YOU'RE LEARNING, IT'S
- [00:32:22.234]ALSO ABOUT WHO YOU'RE LEARNING
- [00:32:27.267]IT FROM AND LEARNING IT WITH.
- [00:32:29.467]I HAD A SESSION WITH A STUDENT
- [00:32:33.033]EARLIER, 70% OF THE JOBS IN THE
- [00:32:36.267]COUNTRY ARE FILLED BEFORE
- [00:32:37.234]THEY'RE ADVERTISED.
- [00:32:39.300]IT'S ABOUT SOCIAL CAPITAL.
- [00:32:41.267]IT'S ABOUT AS YOU MOVE UP IN
- [00:32:43.501]EDUCATION, YOUR NETWORKS WILL
- [00:32:46.300]CHANGE, YOUR FRIENDSHIPS WILL
- [00:32:47.968]CHANGE AND YOUR CONNECTIONS WILL
- [00:32:53.601]CHANGE.
- [00:32:53.934]IT'S ABOUT [INAUDIBLE].
- [00:32:55.000]HOW SHE WAS THE FIRST ONE IN HER
- [00:32:57.567]FAMILY TO GO TO COLLEGE.
- [00:32:59.701]SHE GRADUATED FROM BALTIMORE
- [00:33:01.734]CITY COMMUNITY COLLEGE WITH
- [00:33:03.634]HONORS, AND THEN GOT ACCEPTED TO
- [00:33:07.868]JOHN HOPKINS UNIVERSITY.
- [00:33:10.200]SHE DID TWO SEMESTERS, AND ONE
- [00:33:12.801]DAY SHE GOT A LETTER, INDICATING
- [00:33:14.968]THAT HER PELL GRANTS WERE UP.
- [00:33:18.334]I CAN'T HELP BUT THINK, HOW
- [00:33:20.567]DIFFERENT HER LIFE WOULD HAVE
- [00:33:22.300]BEEN, HAD SHE HAD A CHANCE TO
- [00:33:23.734]FINISH COLLEGE.
- [00:33:26.000]I CAN'T HELP BUT THINK OF THE
- [00:33:30.868]TRANSFORMATIONAL QUALITY NOT
- [00:33:32.267]JUST GIVEN TO HER, BUT HER
- [00:33:33.801]CHILDREN.
- [00:33:38.901]IT'S NOT LOST ON ME.
- [00:33:42.501]THAT EVEN NOW, A GENERATION
- [00:33:47.300]LATER, AS SHE'S SITTING THERE
- [00:33:51.100]WATCHING TELEVISION AND WATCHING
- [00:33:52.734]BREAKING NEWS, AND THEY'RE
- [00:33:54.868]TALKING ABOUT THIS MURDER, OF A
- [00:33:57.601]DECORATED POLICE OFFICER, AND
- [00:33:58.934]WHEN THE FACES FLASH UP ON THE
- [00:34:02.467]TELEVISION SCREEN OF WHO THE
- [00:34:03.801]POLICE ARE LOOKING FOR, AND TWO
- [00:34:05.501]OF THE FACES THAT ARE FLASHING
- [00:34:09.000]UP ARE HER SONS, HOW THERE ARE
- [00:34:14.100]POINTS OF INTERVENTION THAT WE
- [00:34:15.534]KNOW, THAT WE CAN DO NOT JUST
- [00:34:18.033]FOR THE BOYS, FORGET ABOUT THE
- [00:34:20.801]BOYS FOR A SECOND.
- [00:34:22.467]ABOUT ONE KID WHO WENT OFF AND
- [00:34:25.701]FINISHED HIGH SCHOOL, AND FORGET
- [00:34:26.467]THEM.
- [00:34:29.501]ABOUT HOW THERE ARE POINTS OF
- [00:34:31.367]INTERVENTION IN THE LIVES THAT
- [00:34:32.801]HAVE IMPLICATIONS GENERATIONS
- [00:34:34.501]BEYOND.
- [00:34:38.132]AND ANOTHER THING THAT I KNOW
- [00:34:40.634]THAT FUNDAMENTALLY MATTER, ARE
- [00:34:43.434]EXPECTATIONS MATTER.
- [00:34:49.534]I REMEMBER ONCE WHEN I WAS
- [00:34:50.266]TALKING WITH WES, AND TALKING
- [00:34:51.567]ABOUT BALTIMORE, AND I REMEMBER
- [00:34:55.000]ASKING HIM, IF HE THOUGHT WE
- [00:34:58.400]WERE PRODUCTS OF OUR
- [00:35:00.200]ENVIRONMENT.
- [00:35:01.701]I HEARD THAT EXPRESSION SO MANY
- [00:35:06.767]TIME.
- [00:35:07.267]I NEVER QUESTIONED IT OR
- [00:35:08.934]CHALLENGED IT ANYMORE.
- [00:35:11.601]UNTIL NOW, IT COMES TO A POINT
- [00:35:13.901]THAT PART OF THE REASON THAT
- [00:35:15.400]PEOPLE USE THE EXPRESSION IS
- [00:35:17.534]THEY'RE WASHING THEIR HAND OF
- [00:35:18.634]RESPONSIBILITY.
- [00:35:21.901]WELL, LOOK AT THE NEIGHBORHOOD.
- [00:35:25.334]LOOK AT THE PARENTS.
- [00:35:27.167]LOOK AT THE SCHOOL THEY GO TO.
- [00:35:29.067]WHAT DO WE EXPECT?
- [00:35:31.901]AND OFTEN TIMES WE SAY TO
- [00:35:33.801]PEOPLE, THEY'RE A PRODUCT OF THE
- [00:35:37.267]ENVIRONMENT, BECAUSE IT HELPS US
- [00:35:39.868]TO GET TO BED AT NIGHT EASIER.
- [00:35:43.534]AND I REMEMBER I ONCE ASKED WES,
- [00:35:46.234]DO YOU THINK WE'RE PRODUCTS OF
- [00:35:48.133]OUR ENVIRONMENT?
- [00:35:48.934]AND HE LOOKED BACK AT ME, AND
- [00:35:52.367]SAID, ACTUALLY I THINK WE'RE
- [00:35:53.601]PRODUCTS OF OUR EXPECTATIONS.
- [00:35:58.267]AND I THOUGHT TO MYSELF, HE IS
- [00:35:59.601]ABSOLUTELY RIGHT.
- [00:36:03.200]WE'RE NOT PRODUCTS OF THE
- [00:36:05.634]ENVIRONMENTS.
- [00:36:06.067]WE'RE PRODUCTS OF THE
- [00:36:07.767]EXPECTATIONS AND SOMEONE ONCE
- [00:36:08.534]SAID TO ME, IT'S A SHAME YOU
- [00:36:10.667]LOOKED UP TO THE EXPECTATIONS
- [00:36:12.467]AND WES DIDN'T.
- [00:36:13.734]I SAID, THE REAL SHAME IS THAT
- [00:36:15.934]WE BOTH DID.
- [00:36:20.767]WE BOTH LIVED UP TO THE
- [00:36:22.501]EXPECTATIONS.
- [00:36:22.934]THE EXPECTATIONS THAT PEOPLE
- [00:36:24.868]HAVE OF THEMSELVES, IS THEY'RE
- [00:36:27.234]NOT BORN NOWHERE.
- [00:36:28.567]IT COMES FROM THE EXPECTATIONS
- [00:36:30.634]FROM OTHER PEOPLE HAVE OF THEM.
- [00:36:32.267]THEY INTERNALIZE THEM, AND MAKE
- [00:36:34.067]THEM THEIR OWN.
- [00:36:35.267]I DON'T CARE IF YOU'RE TALKING
- [00:36:36.100]ABOUT THE STATE HOUSE, OR
- [00:36:38.334]CAPITAL HILL, I DON'T CARE IF
- [00:36:40.234]YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT BUSINESS OR
- [00:36:42.467]EDUCATION, OR THE MILITARY OR
- [00:36:43.834]NONPROFIT ORGANIZATIONS, AND I
- [00:36:46.767]DON'T CARE IF WE TALK ABOUT
- [00:36:49.334]STATE PENITENTIARIES, ALL OF
- [00:36:52.734]THOSE ARE FULL OF PEOPLE WHO
- [00:36:54.601]LIVED UP TO THEIR EXPECTATIONS.
- [00:36:57.000]THE EXPECTATIONS WE HAVE OF
- [00:36:58.767]OURSELVES AND WE TURN AROUND AND
- [00:37:00.567]HAVE FOR OTHERS, THEY MATTER.
- [00:37:07.934]WE CAN'T ACT LIKE IF WE HAVE LOW
- [00:37:10.534]EXPECTATIONS FOR PEOPLE, THAT
- [00:37:12.400]THEY DON'T NOTICE.
- [00:37:14.400]THAT IT'S LOST ON THEM.
- [00:37:19.601]WE'VE GOT A LOT OF TREMENDOUS
- [00:37:21.100]GAPS IN OUR SOCIETY.
- [00:37:22.567]WE HAVE HEALTH GAPS, WE HAVE
- [00:37:25.000]EDUCATION GAPS.
- [00:37:25.801]WE HAVE HOUSING GAPS.
- [00:37:30.267]IN MY OPINION THE MOST DANGEROUS
- [00:37:33.801]GAP IS THE EXPECTATION GAP.
- [00:37:37.133]WE EXPECT DIFFERENT THINGS FROM
- [00:37:38.067]DIFFERENT PEOPLE.
- [00:37:41.367]AND IF WE CAN'T ADDRESS THE
- [00:37:44.567]EXPECTATION GAP, THEN THERE'S NO
- [00:37:46.701]OTHER GAP WE'LL BE ABLE TO FIX.
- [00:37:50.400]HOW WE THINK ABOUT OURSELF AND
- [00:37:52.934]HOW WE THINK ABOUT OTHERS IN
- [00:38:01.234]RELATION TO THOSE AROUND US,
- [00:38:06.067]DOES MATTER, THIS IS OUR
- [00:38:08.801]OPPORTUNITY.
- [00:38:09.200]I KNOW I STAND HERE RIGHT NOW,
- [00:38:12.400]BECAUSE THERE WERE PEOPLE WHO
- [00:38:13.234]BELIEVED IN ME.
- [00:38:17.300]I KNOW I STAND HERE RIGHT NOW,
- [00:38:20.434]BECAUSE THERE'S PEOPLE WHO SAW
- [00:38:21.634]SOMETHING IN ME, BEFORE I WAS
- [00:38:23.434]READY TO SEE IT MYSELF.
- [00:38:25.434]THERE WERE PEOPLE TO HOLD UP MY
- [00:38:27.734]DREAMS LONG ENOUGH.
- [00:38:28.801]TO WAIT FOR MY SHOULDERS TO BE
- [00:38:31.701]BROAD ENOUGH.
- [00:38:32.701]THAT I NOW NO LONGER NEED THEIR
- [00:38:34.467]HELP TO HOLD THEM.
- [00:38:36.000]I CAN HOLD THEM ON MY OWN.
- [00:38:40.634]I COULD NOT HAVE DONE IT WITHOUT
- [00:38:41.667]THEM.
- [00:38:45.400]I STAND HERE TODAY, BECAUSE OF
- [00:38:47.834]PEOPLE WHO ACTUALLY BELIEVED IN
- [00:38:49.367]A SENSE OF FREEDOM.
- [00:38:52.467]AND THAT I WAS A KID WHO MIGHT
- [00:38:55.634]HAVE IT AS WELL.
- [00:39:00.968]AND THAT'S FUNDAMENTALLY ALL
- [00:39:05.033]WE'RE ASKED TO DO.
- [00:39:06.467]THAT'S OUR ACTIVISM.
- [00:39:08.534]TO FIND THAT THING THAT BREAKS
- [00:39:12.067]YOUR HEART.
- [00:39:15.467]AND MAKE SURE YOU DO SOMETHING
- [00:39:16.567]ABOUT IT.
- [00:39:20.200]TO FIND THAT CAUSE THAT YOU
- [00:39:21.501]WOULD BE WILLING TO GIVE
- [00:39:23.100]EVERYTHING FOR.
- [00:39:24.100]TO FIND THAT THING THAT YOU KNOW
- [00:39:26.167]THAT YOU WANT TO BE DEFINED BY,
- [00:39:29.133]THAT YOU KNOW YOU'RE ABLE TO
- [00:39:29.868]MOVE ON.
- [00:39:33.267]AND THEN GO MOVE THE NEEDLE ON.
- [00:39:37.601]WE DON'T WAIT FOR PERMISSION.
- [00:39:40.968]WE DON'T WAIT FOR OTHER PEOPLE
- [00:39:42.467]TO TELL US IT'S OKAY.
- [00:39:44.567]WE DON'T WAIT FOR PEOPLE TO TELL
- [00:39:46.133]US THAT IT'S TIME.
- [00:39:48.400]WE STEP UP AND WE FIGHT AND USE
- [00:39:51.334]OUR VOICE.
- [00:39:52.200]BECAUSE WE KNOW IT'S THE RIGHT
- [00:39:53.234]THING TO DO.
- [00:39:58.868]I HAD A COLONEL IN MILITARY
- [00:40:02.667]SCHOOL, THIS DUDE WAS TOUGH AS
- [00:40:06.734]NAILS.
- [00:40:07.133]A THREE TIME VIETNAM VETERAN.
- [00:40:10.267]MY BROTHERS AND I THINK WE ONLY
- [00:40:13.934]SAW HIM SMILE ONCE.
- [00:40:15.834]AND THINK IT WAS AN ACCIDENT.
- [00:40:18.634]BUT HE LOVED US.
- [00:40:20.133]AND HE WAS FAIR.
- [00:40:22.534]AND WE LOVED HIM BACK.
- [00:40:26.200]BUT HE WAS LOSING WEIGHT REALLY
- [00:40:27.968]QUICKLY.
- [00:40:28.334]AND ONE DAY HE CALLED THE ENTIRE
- [00:40:32.501]CORE TOGETHER AND SAID HE WAS
- [00:40:34.334]DIAGNOSED WITH CANCER.
- [00:40:35.200]AND HE HAD TO LEAVE THE SCHOOL
- [00:40:36.901]AND HE GAVE THIS SPEECH TO US,
- [00:40:39.767]IN ESSENCE, TURNED OUT TO BE HIS
- [00:40:46.501]FAREWELL ADDRESS.
- [00:40:47.067]HE SAID SOME THINGS TO US THAT
- [00:40:48.968]DAY N THE SPEECH THAT I'LL NEVER
- [00:40:53.067]FORGET.
- [00:40:53.801]HE SAID, WHEN IT'S TIME FOR YOU
- [00:40:57.334]TO LEAVE HERE, WHETHER IT'S TIME
- [00:41:00.200]TO LEAVE THIS SCHOOL, WHETHER
- [00:41:01.801]IT'S TIME TO LEAVE YOUR JOB,
- [00:41:05.033]WHETHER IT'S TIME TO LEAVE YOUR
- [00:41:08.634]COMMUNITY, OR WHEN IT'S TIME FOR
- [00:41:10.234]YOU TO LEAVE THIS PLANET.
- [00:41:14.601]MAKE SURE THAT IT MATTERED THAT
- [00:41:17.167]YOU WERE EVEN HERE.
- [00:41:21.834]MAKE SURE THAT IT MATTERED THAT
- [00:41:24.801]YOU WERE EVER EVEN HERE.
- [00:41:26.534]NONE OF US ARE PROMISED
- [00:41:27.200]ANYTHING.
- [00:41:31.634]WE AREN'T PROMISED MORE DAYS OR
- [00:41:33.367]MORE WEEKS OR MORE YEARS.
- [00:41:36.067]TELLING THE STUDENTS EARLIER,
- [00:41:37.133]NO ONE TAPPED ME ON THE SHOULDER
- [00:41:38.767]AND SAID, HEY WES, YOU HAVE
- [00:41:43.100]4,864 ACES LEFT, SO -- DAYS LEFT
- [00:41:47.934]THE, SO YOU CAN PACE YOURSELF,
- [00:41:50.400]AND NO ONE EVER WILL.
- [00:41:51.767]AND I'M OKAY WITH THAT.
- [00:41:55.067]SO THE ONLY THING THAT WE DO
- [00:41:57.534]KNOW IS WHILE WE'RE HERE, LET'S
- [00:42:01.000]DO SOMETHING WITH IT.
- [00:42:04.467]WHILE WE'RE HERE, LET'S PUSH.
- [00:42:08.267]WHILE WE'RE HERE, LET'S FIGHT.
- [00:42:10.868]WHILE WE'RE HERE, LET'S LOVE.
- [00:42:13.767]WHILE WE'RE HERE, LET'S FIND
- [00:42:15.968]THAT THING THAT WE KNOW WE CAN
- [00:42:17.501]DO SOMETHING ABOUT.
- [00:42:24.167]AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
- [00:42:26.901]LET'S FIND THAT PERSON THAT WE
- [00:42:28.601]KNOW WE CAN MAKE THEIR LIFE A
- [00:42:29.968]BIT EASIER.
- [00:42:34.167]AND GO MAKE THEIR LIFE EASIER.
- [00:42:37.901]BUZZ IF WE HAD DONE THAT --
- [00:42:41.300]BECAUSE IF WE'VE DONE THAT, THEN
- [00:42:45.667]WE'VE DONE EVERYTHING WE'RE
- [00:42:47.067]ASKED TO DO.
- [00:42:47.601]IF WE'VE DONE THAT, WE'RE
- [00:42:49.501]LEADING WITH LOVE AND OUR HEART
- [00:42:51.701]AND MAKING OUR VOICE MATTER.
- [00:42:56.868]IF WE DO THIS, THEN WE'RE GOING
- [00:42:58.901]OUT FIGHTING FOR THE OTHERS.
- [00:43:02.567]WHICH IS THE BEST USE OF OUR
- [00:43:03.567]TIME.
- [00:43:06.367]I AM INCREDIBLY HUMBLED, TO NOT
- [00:43:11.434]JUST BE A PART OF THIS FORUM,
- [00:43:14.133]BUT I'M INCREDIBLY HONORED ABOUT
- [00:43:17.901]THIS IDEA AND THE CONCEPT OF
- [00:43:19.467]ACTIVISM.
- [00:43:21.334]BECAUSE IN ESSENCE, I THINK IT'S
- [00:43:22.934]FOR ALL OF US, IT'S OUR GREATEST
- [00:43:25.701]CALLING.
- [00:43:28.234]IT'S WHY WE'RE HERE.
- [00:43:30.033]TO FIND THAT THING THAT WE KNOW
- [00:43:31.601]WE WANT TO FIGHT AND SUPPORT.
- [00:43:35.701]AND ONCE WE FOUND THAT THING,
- [00:43:38.334]IT'S A THING WE'RE SUPPOSED TO
- [00:43:40.067]FIGHT FOR AND NOT LET GO OF,
- [00:43:43.000]UNTIL OUR JOB IS DONE.
- [00:43:46.033]BLESS YOU, AND THANK YOU VERY
- [00:43:47.501]MUCH FOR YOUR TIME, AND YOUR
- [00:43:48.667]SERVICE.
- [00:43:49.000]THANK YOU.
- [00:43:50.167][APPLAUSE]
- [00:44:24.767]BLESS YOU GUYS, THANK YOU.
- [00:44:28.601]YOU'RE ALL SO SWEET, THANK YOU.
- [00:44:30.801]>> LADIES AND GENTLEMEN, THANK
- [00:44:31.934]YOU.
- [00:44:32.200]AT THIS TIME, WES WILL TAKE
- [00:44:35.567]QUESTIONS FROM THE AUDIENCE.
- [00:44:37.734]YOU MAY SUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS,
- [00:44:40.501]VIA TWITTER, OR WRITE YOUR
- [00:44:42.267]QUESTIONS ON THE CARD.
- [00:44:43.701]THE FIRST QUESTION, COMES FROM
- [00:44:46.901]THE E.N. THOMPSON INTERNATIONAL
- [00:44:49.267]SCHOLARS.
- [00:44:49.968]WES, WE ALL KNOW PEOPLE LIKE THE
- [00:44:51.901]OTHER WES OR THE OTHER ON THEIR
- [00:44:54.801]WAY TO BE LIKE HIM, WHAT DO YOU
- [00:44:58.000]FEEL IS THE GREATEST THING TO
- [00:44:59.934]CHANGE THEIR DIRECTION?
- [00:45:06.167]>> THANK YOU THOMPSON
- [00:45:08.601]INTERNATIONAL SCHOLAR FOR
- [00:45:10.100]STARTING WITH SUCH AN EASY
- [00:45:11.901]QUESTION.
- [00:45:12.300]IT'S A GREAT QUESTION, THANK
- [00:45:13.300]YOU.
- [00:45:16.601]IF FIRST THING I WOULD TELL
- [00:45:21.133]THEM, IS THE MOMENT THAT YOU
- [00:45:24.434]HAVE GIVEN UP ON YOURSELF,
- [00:45:26.133]THAT'S THE MOMENT THAT EVERYONE
- [00:45:27.667]ELSE IS GIVING UP ON YOU AS
- [00:45:28.701]WELL.
- [00:45:34.934]WE WORK WITH KIDS INVOLVED IN
- [00:45:38.100]THE JUVENILE JUSTICE SYSTEM IN
- [00:45:40.133]BALTIMORE CITY.
- [00:45:41.601]THAT'S A WHOLE OTHER THING TO
- [00:45:43.033]TALK ABOUT.
- [00:45:49.634]AND OFTEN TIMES, ONE OF THE
- [00:45:51.767]COMMENTS WE'LL GET FROM PEOPLE F
- [00:45:54.834]THIS KID IS YOU KNOW, IF SOMEONE
- [00:45:58.167]HAD GIVEN UP ON THEIR FUTURE,
- [00:46:00.601]THEN WHAT CAN WE DO FOR THEM.
- [00:46:03.434]IF SOMEONE HAS TRULY GIVEN UP ON
- [00:46:06.000]THEIR FUTURE, THEN THERE'S
- [00:46:07.200]NOTHING YOU CAN DO FOR THEM.
- [00:46:09.601]NO.
- [00:46:14.334]BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO BE YOUR OWN
- [00:46:16.968]GREATEST ADVOCATE, AND IF YOU
- [00:46:19.434]DON'T, EVEN THE SMALLEST KERNEL,
- [00:46:21.701]IF YOU'RE NOT THOUGHTFUL OF YOUR
- [00:46:24.834]OWN FUTURE, IT'LL BE IMPOSSIBLE
- [00:46:28.334]TO FIND OTHERS TO BE THAT WAY
- [00:46:29.868]EITHER.
- [00:46:30.200]THE FIRST THING, IS YOU HAVE TO
- [00:46:33.200]HAVE A SENSE OF BELIEF AND HOPE
- [00:46:36.167]OF WHERE YOU CAN GO.
- [00:46:37.567]NOW, WHERE I THINK IT MATTERS
- [00:46:38.901]FOR ALL OF US THOUGH, IS A, WE
- [00:46:42.767]HAVE TO DO WHAT WE NEED TO DO SO
- [00:46:45.200]PEOPLE DON'T GET TO THAT POINT
- [00:46:48.400]WHERE THEY'VE LOST HOPE IN THE
- [00:46:50.367]FUTURE.
- [00:46:50.701]AND WE NEED TO MAKE SURE WE'RE
- [00:46:52.467]THERE TO LET THEM KNOW F YOU'RE
- [00:46:54.868]WILLING TO FIGHT FOR YOURSELF,
- [00:46:56.467]WE'RE WILLING TO FIGHT FOR YOU
- [00:46:58.634]AS WELL.
- [00:46:59.701]PART OF THE REASON THE PEOPLE
- [00:47:01.300]GET TO THIS POINT IS THEY FEEL
- [00:47:03.300]LIKE THEY'RE DOING IT ON THEIR
- [00:47:05.067]OWN.
- [00:47:05.334]THEY DON'T HAVE ADVOCATES.
- [00:47:06.901]THEY DON'T HAVE SUPPORTERS, THAT
- [00:47:10.334]NOBODY CARES.
- [00:47:11.334]ABOUT THEIR FUTURE.
- [00:47:12.801]SO WHY SHOUTED THEY CARE ABOUT
- [00:47:15.033]-- SHOULD THEY CARE ABOUT IT,
- [00:47:17.267]AND IN MY OPINION, THE MOST
- [00:47:20.100]DANGEROUS THING THAT CAN HAPPEN,
- [00:47:21.367]YOU SHOW ME A PERSON THAT
- [00:47:24.033]DOESN'T CARE ABOUT THEIR FUTURE,
- [00:47:25.701]IT'S A PERSON WHO DOESN'T CARE
- [00:47:27.901]ABOUT YOUR FUTURE EITHER.
- [00:47:30.067]THE BEST WAY TO DEAL WITH THAT,
- [00:47:32.033]AND TAKE THAT ON THOUGH, IS TO
- [00:47:35.000]MAKE SURE THAT WE'RE BEING
- [00:47:36.834]CONSISTENT.
- [00:47:37.300]AND I GO BACK TO THE EXAMPLE OF
- [00:47:39.467]THE KIDS WHO WE WORK WITH IN
- [00:47:43.000]BALTIMORE CITY.
- [00:47:43.667]I REMEMBER WE HAD A MENTOR, SHE
- [00:47:46.100]TURNED OUT TO BE THE BEST
- [00:47:47.868]MENTOR, BUT SHE WAS A GIRL FROM
- [00:47:49.667]A -- A YOUNG WOMAN FROM
- [00:47:53.801]EDGEWOOD, NEW JERSEY.
- [00:47:55.667]AND SHE CAME TO AN INFO SESSION,
- [00:47:58.567]AND SHE SAID, I WANT TO WORK
- [00:48:00.200]WITH THIS POPULATION, BUT THESE
- [00:48:03.033]ARE GENERALLY FIRST AND SECOND
- [00:48:06.100]TIME OFFENDERS, AND KIDS RANGE
- [00:48:10.968]FROM 8 YEARS OLD TO 12.
- [00:48:15.634]AND SHE SAID, I WANT TO WORK
- [00:48:17.934]WITH THIS POPULATION, BUT TO BE
- [00:48:20.367]HONEST, WE HAVE NOTHING IN
- [00:48:23.100]COMMON.
- [00:48:23.434]I WENT TO INDEPENDENT SCHOOLS,
- [00:48:26.567]I'M NOT SURE WHERE TO BEGIN.
- [00:48:29.434]AND ONE OF YOUR DIRECTORS TOLD
- [00:48:31.234]HER, THE ONLY THING I ASK, ARE
- [00:48:34.033]ARE YOU WILLING TO BE
- [00:48:34.834]CONSISTENT?
- [00:48:39.334]THE ONLY CONSISTENCY, IN MANY OF
- [00:48:41.634]THE KID'S LIVES, IS
- [00:48:43.367]INCONSISTENCY.
- [00:48:48.300]THEY'RE MOVING FROM HOUSE TO
- [00:48:50.667]HOUSE, THEY HAVE PEOPLE IN AND
- [00:48:51.601]OUT OF THEIR LIVES, THEY HAVE
- [00:48:53.767]TEACHERS IN AND OUT OF THEIR
- [00:48:55.200]LIVES, THEY HAVE PARENTS, AND
- [00:48:58.100]PROBATION OFFICERS.
- [00:48:59.000]THE ONLY CONSISTENCY IS
- [00:49:02.000]INCONSISTENCY.
- [00:49:02.434]AND SO HE SAID TO HER, THE ONLY
- [00:49:04.968]THING I ASK IS IF YOU'RE WILLING
- [00:49:08.000]TO BE CONSISTENT. IF YOU SAY,
- [00:49:10.968]I'LL BE THERE AT TUESDAY 10:00,
- [00:49:13.067]I WILL TAKE YOU TEN TIMES OUT OF
- [00:49:15.634]TEN, VERSUS THE PERSON WHO LOOKS
- [00:49:18.334]JUST LIKE THEM, AND TUESDAY AT
- [00:49:21.033]10:00 IS NOWHERE TO BE FOUND.
- [00:49:24.334]WE NEED CONSISTENCY.
- [00:49:27.267]BECAUSE WHEN A PERSON FEELS
- [00:49:29.501]SOMEONE IS CONSISTENTLY FIGHTING
- [00:49:31.000]FOR THEM, AND ADVOCATING FOR
- [00:49:34.067]THEM, THEY BEGIN TO PERFORM
- [00:49:36.234]ACCORDINGLY.
- [00:49:36.767]SO I SAY TO THE INTERNATIONAL
- [00:49:39.567]STUDENTS, THE THING WE HAVE TO
- [00:49:42.133]BE PREPARED TO DO, IS WE HAVE TO
- [00:49:44.834]BE PREPARED TO LOVE, AND FIGHT
- [00:49:49.167]CONSISTENTLY FOR OUR STUDENT AND
- [00:49:50.367]OUR PEOPLE.
- [00:49:51.400]BECAUSE THAT'S THE ONLY WAY
- [00:49:53.467]IT'LL KEEP THEM FROM HAVING A
- [00:49:55.434]SENSE OF HOPE AND CONFIDENCE IN
- [00:49:58.300]THEIR OWN FUTURE.
- [00:50:00.067]WHICH IS EMPERTIVE FOR THEIR OWN
- [00:50:05.234]SUCCESS.
- [00:50:05.601]>> THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
- [00:50:06.467]NEXT QUESTION, WHY DO YOU THINK
- [00:50:08.334]THERE'S A TURN AWAY FROM THE
- [00:50:10.133]OTHER IN THE STATE LIKE
- [00:50:12.968]NEBRASKA?
- [00:50:13.834]IN THE STABLE MIDWEST.
- [00:50:14.701]>> FIRST, LET ME SAY, IT'S KNOT
- [00:50:17.400]JUST NEBRASKA.
- [00:50:17.868]THIS IS NOT -- IF IT MAKES YA'LL
- [00:50:19.968]FEEL BETTER, THIS IS NOT A
- [00:50:21.167]NEBRASKA PROBLEM.
- [00:50:23.901]I THINK THERE'S BEEN A STEADY
- [00:50:25.634]TURN AWAY OF THE OTHER ALL
- [00:50:27.801]THROUGHOUT OUR COUNTRY.
- [00:50:28.968]AND I THINK THERE'S A STEADY
- [00:50:31.167]TURN AWAY FROM THE OTHER ALL
- [00:50:32.934]THROUGHOUT OUR GLOBE.
- [00:50:34.734]AND I THINK PART OF IT IS,
- [00:50:37.067]THERE'S A FEELING OP INSTABILITY
- [00:50:39.968]OF EVERYONE'S OWN PERSONAL
- [00:50:42.234]SPACE.
- [00:50:42.534]IT'S A FEELING OF WILL I LOSE MY
- [00:50:45.634]PLACE.
- [00:50:46.067]WILL IT HARM ME IF I ALLOW THIS
- [00:50:50.634]PERSON TO BE A PART OF THE THE
- [00:50:52.767]CONVERSATION.
- [00:50:53.200]THIS GROUP OR THIS PERSON OR
- [00:50:56.000]THIS WHATEVER?
- [00:50:57.734]WILL IT DISENFRANCHISE ME?
- [00:51:00.367]SO I GET IT.
- [00:51:01.968]THE THING I THINK IS IMPORTANT
- [00:51:03.934]TO REMEMBER THOUGH, IS TWO FOLD.
- [00:51:07.000]ONE IS WE'LL NEVER HAVE HONEST
- [00:51:08.968]CONVERSATIONS OF THE FUTURE OF
- [00:51:10.701]THE COMMUNITIES IF ONLY A SLIVER
- [00:51:12.801]OF THE POPULATION IS A PART OF
- [00:51:16.033]THE CONVERSATION.
- [00:51:17.501]AND WE'RE NEVER GOING TO HAVE
- [00:51:19.634]HONEST CONVERSATIONS OF THE
- [00:51:21.133]FUTURE OF THE COMMUNITY IF ONLY
- [00:51:22.701]A SLIVER OF THE POPULATION IS
- [00:51:24.667]THOUGHT ABOUT IN THE
- [00:51:26.234]CONVERSATIONS, AND SO I THINK IT
- [00:51:29.267]BEHOOVES US THAT WE'LL MOVE
- [00:51:32.767]CONSISTENTLY AND HONESTLY, THAT
- [00:51:34.133]WE'RE ABLE TO GET RID OF THE
- [00:51:37.167]OTHER, AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE.
- [00:51:39.834]ESPECIALLY, THERE'S NOT A SINGLE
- [00:51:41.000]PERSON IN THE ROOM, THAT AT SOME
- [00:51:43.501]POINT IN LIFE, YOU'RE NOT THE
- [00:51:47.834]OTHER.
- [00:51:48.300]EVERYONE AT SOME POINT, HAS
- [00:51:50.000]BEEN THAT OTHER.
- [00:51:50.701]EVERYONE NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND
- [00:51:51.968]WHAT THAT FEELING IS LIKE, AND
- [00:51:54.100]IMAGINE IF THAT'S THE ONLY
- [00:51:55.667]FEELING THAT YOU KNOW.
- [00:51:57.701]THE OTHER THING I THINK IS
- [00:51:58.901]REALLY IMPORTANT TO REMEMBER, IS
- [00:52:01.501]WE'RE NEVER GOING TO BE A SAFE
- [00:52:03.334]OR SECURE SOCIETY.
- [00:52:04.267]IF WE HAVE THE OTHERS.
- [00:52:09.200]AND YOU KNOW, YOU TAKE FOR
- [00:52:12.467]EXAMPLE, I'LL TAKE ONE EXAMPLE.
- [00:52:16.434]AGAIN, THIS IS CLASSIFIED IN A
- [00:52:18.067]LOT OF DIFFERENT REALMS.
- [00:52:20.868]BUT LET'S TAKE A POPULATION THAT
- [00:52:22.267]WE DO A LOT OF WORK WITH, AND
- [00:52:25.267]THOSE ARE THE RETURNING
- [00:52:26.834]CITIZENS, THE ONE RETURNING FROM
- [00:52:28.434]PRISON.
- [00:52:29.000]AND OFTEN TIMES, THERE'S ALMOST
- [00:52:31.167]A KNEE JERK REACTION OF PEOPLE
- [00:52:34.701]RETURNING HOME, WELL, THEY CAN'T
- [00:52:37.367]COME BACK AND GET JOBS AND DO
- [00:52:39.400]THIS AND THREAT TO SOCIETY AND
- [00:52:40.868]SO ON AND SO FORTH.
- [00:52:42.534]AGAIN, I GET THE ARGUMENT.
- [00:52:45.634]BUT I ALSO KNOW THIS.
- [00:52:49.601]IF WE HAVE OVER A 60% RE-- RATE,
- [00:53:03.400]FIRST WE HAVE TO REMEMBER
- [00:53:04.567]THEY'RE REARRESTED FOR
- [00:53:07.767]SOMETHING.
- [00:53:08.534]THAT LAWS ARE STILL BEING
- [00:53:10.267]BROKEN, WE'RE NOT PREPARING
- [00:53:11.767]PEOPLE TO RETURN BACK TO SOCIETY
- [00:53:13.868]AND WE'RE NOT PREPARING SOCIETY
- [00:53:16.634]PER THEIR REENTRY, WE'LL HAVE A
- [00:53:19.300]REPEATED PROBLEM, THAT WE'LL
- [00:53:20.734]HAVE TO ADDRESS.
- [00:53:22.000]THE SECOND THING WE HAVE TO
- [00:53:23.701]REMEMBER, WHEN WE'RE HAVING THE
- [00:53:25.133]DEBATE AND IS CONVERSATIONS, IF
- [00:53:27.400]A PERSON RETURNS BACK TO
- [00:53:30.734]SOCIETY, AND THEY CAN'T FIND
- [00:53:33.767]STABLE EMPLOYMENT, THEY CAN'T
- [00:53:36.767]FIND STABLE HOUSING AND THEY'RE
- [00:53:38.834]NOT ALLOWED TO REINTEGRATE WITH
- [00:53:40.734]THEIR FAMILIES, THEY'LL FIND A
- [00:53:42.400]WAY TO SURVIVE.
- [00:53:44.901]AND I'M NOT SURE IF IT'S A WAY
- [00:53:47.934]THAT ANY OF US FEEL IS
- [00:53:49.968]PRODUCTIVE OR GOD HONORING.
- [00:53:54.567]SO WHEN WE'RE THINKING ABOUT
- [00:53:57.868]THIS INTEGRATION OF THE OTHERS
- [00:54:00.434]IN OUR SOCIETY, REGARDLESS OF
- [00:54:02.267]WHO THE OTHERS ARE, WE HAVE TO
- [00:54:05.734]REMEMBER THAT IF WE AREN'T
- [00:54:07.868]THINKING ABOUT IT, IN AN
- [00:54:13.234]EMCOMPASSING WAY, OR A
- [00:54:15.734]SUPPORTIVE WAY, OR SHED THE
- [00:54:17.801]OTHER DUMB THAT THEY FEEL, THEN
- [00:54:20.667]THE OTHER DUMB THAT THEY'RE
- [00:54:22.100]POSSESSING AND INTERNALIZING, IT
- [00:54:24.534]WILL BE REFLECTED IN ANOTHER
- [00:54:26.868]WAY.
- [00:54:27.133]AND A WAY THAT I THINK FOR NONE
- [00:54:29.901]OF US, MAKES US BETTER OR SAFER
- [00:54:32.200]OR MORE SECURE.
- [00:54:33.400]>> THE NEXT QUESTION, HOW CAN WE
- [00:54:37.834]HELP INCREASE SOMEONE'S
- [00:54:42.133]EXPECTATIONS?
- [00:54:42.567]>> THESE ARE REALLY GOOD
- [00:54:45.434]QUESTIONS.
- [00:54:45.834]I THINK THERE'S ONLY TWO WAYS OF
- [00:54:50.200]DOING THAT.
- [00:54:53.033]AND THAT'S EXPOSURES, AND TIME.
- [00:55:01.734]I REMEMBER SOMEONE ASKED ME, HOW
- [00:55:03.601]DO YOU CHANGE SOMEONE'S
- [00:55:06.033]THINKING?
- [00:55:06.400]I SAY, YOU KNOW, CHANGING
- [00:55:08.267]SOMEONE'S THINKING IS THE MOST
- [00:55:10.033]DIFFICULT THING WE CAN DO.
- [00:55:11.534]YOU CAN CHANGE LAWS, BUT NEVER
- [00:55:14.934]CHANGE SOMEONE'S THINKING OF
- [00:55:17.067]LAWS.
- [00:55:17.634]I'M A BIG BELIEVER THAT CERTAIN
- [00:55:19.501]LAWS HAVE TO CHANGE.
- [00:55:20.667]DR. KING SAID IT BEST, WHEN HE
- [00:55:24.601]SAID, LAWS WILL NEVER CHANGE THE
- [00:55:26.934]HEART.
- [00:55:27.267]BUT LAWS WILL PROTECT YOU FROM
- [00:55:28.667]THE HEARTLESS.
- [00:55:32.067]THE ONLY THING THAT CAN CHANGE
- [00:55:33.801]THE HEART, OR TIME, THE ONLY
- [00:55:37.067]THING TO CHANGE SOMEONE'S
- [00:55:39.000]EXPECTATIONS IS EXPOSURE.
- [00:55:39.968]AND TIME.
- [00:55:44.434]AND I'LL GIVE A PERFECT EXAMPLE
- [00:55:46.400]IN MY OWN LIFE.
- [00:55:49.100]I GOT VERY INVOLVED IN THE DON'T
- [00:55:52.367]ASK DON'T TELL REPEAL MOVEMENT.
- [00:55:58.834]IT WASN'T ANYTHING THAT
- [00:56:00.200]PERSONALLY IMPACT ME, UNTIL IT
- [00:56:03.234]DID.
- [00:56:03.801]BECAUSE, ONE OF MY MENTORS A
- [00:56:06.767]PERSON I MET WHEN I WAS 13 YEARS
- [00:56:08.701]OLD, WHO HELPED TO SAVE MY LIFE
- [00:56:11.701]AND CHANGE THE ENTIRE PROJECTRY
- [00:56:15.234]OF MY LIFE, WAS -- HE BECAME MY
- [00:56:20.801]BIG BROTHER, AND MY ARMY
- [00:56:24.501]OFFICER.
- [00:56:25.033]HE WAS ONE REASON I JOINED THE
- [00:56:28.667]ARMY.
- [00:56:28.968]I WANTED TO BE LIKE HIM.
- [00:56:30.434]HE LEFT THE ARMY AFTER FOUR OR
- [00:56:32.834]FIVE YEARS IN THE ARMY.
- [00:56:35.167]HE WAS STILL, MY BIG BROTHER IN
- [00:56:37.434]MILITARY SCHOOL, ONE OF MY BEST
- [00:56:41.534]FRIENDS, A GROOMSMAN IN MY
- [00:56:44.300]WEDDING.
- [00:56:44.667]AND I INTRODUCED HIM TO ANOTHER
- [00:56:47.234]FRIEND, WHO WAS A FEMALE.
- [00:56:49.167]SHE WAS REALLY CUTE AND HE'S A
- [00:56:51.334]NICE GOOD LOOKING GUY, THEY MEET
- [00:56:54.634]AND LIKE EACH OTHER, AND SHE'S
- [00:56:57.601]LIKE, I REALLY LIKE TY.
- [00:57:00.734]I'M LIKE, TY, HE DIDN'T CALL
- [00:57:04.434]HER.
- [00:57:04.701]I'M LIKE, WHAT'S UP?
- [00:57:11.601]THIS IS CRAZY, SHE WANTS YOU TO
- [00:57:13.200]CALL HER.
- [00:57:14.000]GIVE HER A CALL.
- [00:57:15.767]AND FINALLY, HE TOLD ME, THAT HE
- [00:57:18.501]WASN'T GOING TO CALL HER.
- [00:57:21.267]BECAUSE HE WASN'T ATTRACTED TO
- [00:57:22.000]HER.
- [00:57:23.901]AN I'M LIKE, HOW ARE YOU NOT
- [00:57:28.767]ATTRACTED TO HER, SHE'S
- [00:57:30.868]BEAUTIFUL.
- [00:57:31.234]AND HE EXPLAINED WHAT HE MEANT
- [00:57:33.901]BY.
- [00:57:34.167]I LATER ON FOUND OUT, THE REASON
- [00:57:37.801]HE LEFT THE MILITARY, WAS
- [00:57:40.634]BECAUSE HE HAD THE AUDACITY OF
- [00:57:44.300]TELLING HIS COMMANDING OFFICER,
- [00:57:46.334]HIS TRUTH.
- [00:57:47.000]AND HE WAS ASKED TO LEAVE THE
- [00:57:48.901]MILITARY WITHIN TWO MONTHS.
- [00:57:51.000]I KNOW PEOPLE IN THE MILITARY,
- [00:57:52.701]WHO ARE DISCHARGED FOR VIOLENCE
- [00:57:55.167]AND DRUGS AND IT TAKES THEM
- [00:57:57.734]MONTHS.
- [00:57:58.300]IT TAKES THEM SIX OR EIGHT
- [00:57:59.734]MONTHS TO GET OUT AND IT TOOK
- [00:58:03.634]HIM TWO.
- [00:58:05.167]AND HE'S ONE OF THE BEST MEN
- [00:58:08.067]I'VE EVER KNOWN.
- [00:58:11.601]HE'S ONE OF THE BEST LEADERS
- [00:58:13.834]I'VE EVER KNOWN.
- [00:58:15.033]I WOULD TRUST MY SON OR DAUGHTER
- [00:58:18.000]UNDER HIS COMMAND.
- [00:58:20.734]AND I COULD NOT FOR THE LIFE OF
- [00:58:23.601]ME, UNDERSTAND A SINGLE ARGUMENT
- [00:58:24.968]THAT PEOPLE WERE MAKING AS TO
- [00:58:27.834]WHY IN ANY WAY, HAVING TY REMAIN
- [00:58:30.701]A MEMBER OF THE MILITARY WAS
- [00:58:33.601]SOMEHOW AFFECTING THE NATIONAL
- [00:58:36.133]SECURITY.
- [00:58:36.501]IN FACT THE ARGUMENT I WAS
- [00:58:38.300]MAKING, I THOUGHT IT WAS A
- [00:58:41.434]HINDRANCE TO THE NATIONAL
- [00:58:43.167]SECURITY, WHEN YOU ALLOW SOMEONE
- [00:58:44.901]LIKE HIM NOT TO SERVE.
- [00:58:48.501]AND SO I SAID, I WAS LIKE, I
- [00:58:50.567]TRIED TO GET IT THROUGH MY OWN
- [00:58:54.167]MIND, IF I COULD HEAR A
- [00:58:55.567]LEGITIMATE ARGUMENT OF HOW THIS
- [00:58:56.801]IS MAKING IT LESS SAFE OR
- [00:59:00.334]SOMEHOW THIS WAS HURTING THE
- [00:59:01.868]UNITS THAT I PROUDLY SERVED
- [00:59:04.000]WITH, I'M LISTENING.
- [00:59:05.434]BUT I HAVE NOT HEARD A SINGLE
- [00:59:06.701]ARGUMENT.
- [00:59:10.267]AND SO I GOT INVOLVED IN THE
- [00:59:12.701]REPEAL OF DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL
- [00:59:15.067]BECAUSE I SAID, THIS IS A POLICY
- [00:59:18.767]THAT IS NOT ONLY NOT MAKING US
- [00:59:22.534]SAFE, IT'S MORALLY
- [00:59:29.501]INDEFENSEABLE.
- [00:59:29.934]AND WHAT GOT ME AROUND TO THAT
- [00:59:34.467]POINT, AGAIN, IT WASN'T
- [00:59:37.067]SOMETHING THAT PERSONALLY ASKED
- [00:59:39.033]ME, AND IT WASN'T SOMETHING I
- [00:59:43.434]THOUGHT ABOUT WHEN I JOINED THE
- [00:59:46.601]MILL.
- [00:59:47.667]I DIDN'T NOTICE THAT NOBODY
- [00:59:49.434]DIDN'T ASK ME MY ORIENTATION, I
- [00:59:52.067]JUST DID MY JOB.
- [00:59:54.100]THE THING THAT CHANGED MY MIND
- [00:59:55.634]AND HEART AND VOICE AND ACTIVISM
- [00:59:58.367]ON THIS ISSUE WAS EXPOSURE AND
- [01:00:00.834]TIME.
- [01:00:01.400]SO I THINK AS WE TALK ABOUT
- [01:00:02.934]BUILDING OUT AND CHANGING
- [01:00:04.601]EXPECTATIONS FOR OTHER PEOPLE,
- [01:00:07.200]WE HAVE TO FIND PEOPLE WHO ARE
- [01:00:08.434]WILLING TO EXPOSE THEMSELVES TO
- [01:00:10.934]THAT.
- [01:00:11.601]THEY HAVE TO BE WILLING TO
- [01:00:14.734]EXPOSE THEMSELVES TO A DIFFERENT
- [01:00:16.133]WAY OF LEARNING, AND BE OPEN
- [01:00:18.367]MINDED THAT THEY CAN LEARN AND
- [01:00:19.701]WE HAVE TO GIVE THEM TIME.
- [01:00:22.000]IF WE DO THOSE WO THINGS, I
- [01:00:25.968]THINK WE CAN WATCH EXPECTATIONS
- [01:00:28.100]CHANGE ON ISSUES THAT WE CARE
- [01:00:31.300]DEEPLY ABOUT.
- [01:00:31.868]>> NEXT QUESTION FROM THE MEMBER
- [01:00:33.167]OF THE AUDIENCE THIS EVENING,
- [01:00:35.534]HOW WOULD YOU RECOMMEND THAT I
- [01:00:39.200]RESPOND TO A FRIEND THAT THINKS
- [01:00:41.567]ALL AMERICANS HAVE A = CHANCE TO
- [01:00:45.133]SUCCEED.
- [01:00:45.467]-- EQUAL CHANCE TO SUCCEED.
- [01:00:53.501]>> YOU KNOW, THIS IS ACTUALLY AN
- [01:00:58.367]IMPORTANT QUESTION.
- [01:01:03.234]BECAUSE I OFTEN TIMES WILL HEAR
- [01:01:05.400]PEOPLE MAKE THE ARGUMENT, AND
- [01:01:08.033]THEY'LL SAY, MY STORY, THIS IS
- [01:01:10.467]A GREAT EXAMPLE OF WHEN SOMEONE
- [01:01:12.734]WORKS HARD THAT THEY CAN MAKE
- [01:01:15.267]IT.
- [01:01:15.701]AND I WAS TELLING THE STUDENTS
- [01:01:17.734]EARLIER, A GREAT EXAMPLE OF THIS
- [01:01:21.033]IS NICK CHRISTOPH, WE GOT TO THE
- [01:01:25.000]HUSBAND OF CHERL -- HE WROTE ME
- [01:01:32.767]A FEW YEARS BACK, I REALLY LIKE
- [01:01:34.934]YOUR BOOK.
- [01:01:36.934]AND HE WROTE THIS BEAUTIFUL
- [01:01:38.834][INAUDIBLE] OF HOW I ENJOYED
- [01:01:41.868]THIS BOOK.
- [01:01:44.100]IT'S A GREAT EXAMINATION OF RACE
- [01:01:47.601]AND CLASS IN OUR SOCIETY.
- [01:01:52.267]AND I GOT A LETTER FROM MY
- [01:01:56.067]MRUSHER, HE WANTS TO --
- [01:01:58.634]PUBLISHERS HE WANTS TO WRITE
- [01:02:01.601]SOMETHING OF YOUR OBAMACARE.
- [01:02:05.801]-- OF YOUR BOOK.
- [01:02:13.934]THIS HAS FASCINATING, THEY LIKE
- [01:02:16.834]IT BUT FOR COMPLETELY DIFFERENT
- [01:02:19.634]REASONS.
- [01:02:19.968]MY WIFE ASKED, WHO DO YOU THINK
- [01:02:24.901]IS RIGHT?
- [01:02:26.734]I THINK THEY'RE BOTH RIGHT.
- [01:02:28.601]AT THE END OF THE DAY, THESE ARE
- [01:02:32.133]INDIVIDUAL DECISIONS THAT ARE
- [01:02:33.300]BEING MADE.
- [01:02:36.734]AND PEOPLE HAVE TO BE
- [01:02:42.234]ACCOUNTABLE.
- [01:02:42.667]WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THE
- [01:02:43.801]DECISIONS ARE MADE IN A SOCIETAL
- [01:02:49.434]CONTEXT.
- [01:02:49.767]ONE OF THE THINGS WE HAVE TO DO
- [01:02:51.167]IS WHEN PEOPLE MAKE THE
- [01:02:52.834]ARGUMENT, THIS IS ALL ABOUT, IF
- [01:02:54.467]PEOPLE WORK HARDER, OR EVERY HAS
- [01:02:57.367]THE SAME TYPE OF SHOT THE, I
- [01:02:59.634]THINK IT'S IMPORTANT TO BASEBALL
- [01:03:02.200]EXPOSE PEOPLE TO THE FACT THAT
- [01:03:04.300]IS JUST NOT TRUE.
- [01:03:06.367]IT'S HOW WE WANT IT TO BE.
- [01:03:10.067]AND I THINK WE MADE AMAZING
- [01:03:11.667]STRIDES TO GET CLOSER TO THE
- [01:03:12.467]IDEAL.
- [01:03:14.467]BUT WHEN WE STILL HAVE KIDS,
- [01:03:17.234]WHO ARE GROWING UP IN ABJECT
- [01:03:22.400]PROVRT, WHEN WE -- POVERTY.
- [01:03:28.734]WE STILL HAVE KIDS WITH LEAD
- [01:03:31.300]BASED POISONING.
- [01:03:32.934]AND WE HAVE KIDS GOING TO SCHOOL
- [01:03:36.100]WITH A 50 PLUS PERCENT DROPOUT
- [01:03:41.300]RATE, IT'S DIFFICULT TO MAKE AN
- [01:03:43.033]ARGUMENT THAT EVERYONE HAS THE
- [01:03:46.133]SAME ACCESS AND OPPORTUNITY TO
- [01:03:48.834]SUCCEED.
- [01:03:49.200]I DON'T THINK THAT'S SOMETHING
- [01:03:51.234]THAT ON AN AFFLUENT BASIS, ONE
- [01:03:54.567]OF THE THINGS WE STARTED DOING
- [01:03:55.868]WITH THE STUDENTS BACK IN
- [01:03:59.000]BALTIMORE -- THESE ARE KIDS WITH
- [01:04:01.801]SOME OF THE BIGGEST CHIPS ON
- [01:04:03.701]THEIR SHOULDER.
- [01:04:04.534]REAL REASONS TO HAPPEN TO.
- [01:04:07.067]KID, THEY WERE DEALT A RAW HAND
- [01:04:08.667]FROM JUMP STREET.
- [01:04:15.667]AND ONE THING THE DIRECTOR
- [01:04:18.734]WANTED TO DO, HE WANTED TO TAKE
- [01:04:20.567]THE HARDEST KIDS, AND HE STARTED
- [01:04:23.434]TO TAKE THEM TO JOHN HOPKINS
- [01:04:25.434]UNIVERSITY HOSPITAL.
- [01:04:30.334]AND HE TOOK THEM TO THE
- [01:04:34.000]PEDIATRIC ONCOLOGY UNIT AND
- [01:04:36.901]INTRODUCED THE STUDENTS TO A
- [01:04:38.634]5-YEAR-OLD WITH TERMINAL CANCER.
- [01:04:42.534]WHOSE FACE LIGHTS UP, SIMPLY
- [01:04:44.434]BECAUSE YOU CAME IN TO SAY
- [01:04:47.000]HELLO.
- [01:04:47.334]TAKE THEM TO THE BURN UNIT.
- [01:04:50.033]SPRUCE THEM TO THAT 9-YEAR-OLD
- [01:04:53.667]WHO NOW HAS THIRD-DEGREE BURNS
- [01:04:55.367]OVER 50% OF HER BODY, BECAUSE
- [01:04:58.133]HER MOTHER WAS GETTING HIGH TWO
- [01:05:01.200]NIGHT AGO AND ACCIDENTAL LIT THE
- [01:05:02.434]HOUSE ON FIRE.
- [01:05:05.367]AND THEN TELL ME HOW BAD YOU
- [01:05:06.400]HAVE IT.
- [01:05:09.467]UNDERSTAND THERE ARE PEOPLE ON
- [01:05:10.968]THIS PLANET, WHO ON YOUR WORST
- [01:05:13.868]DAY, WOULD TRADE PLACES WITH YOU
- [01:05:15.567]IN A SECOND.
- [01:05:16.868]ON YOUR WORST DAY.
- [01:05:18.567]THEY TRADE WITH YOU IN AN
- [01:05:20.067]INSTANT IF THEY COULD.
- [01:05:24.000]WE DON'T YET LIVE IN A SOCIETY
- [01:05:26.868]WHERE ALL THINGS ARE EQUAL OR
- [01:05:29.200]FAIR, EVERY OPPORTUNITY IS AN
- [01:05:31.868]EQUAL OPPORTUNITY.
- [01:05:33.367]BUT THAT'S ALSO WHY WE KEEP
- [01:05:35.734]WORKED TOGETHER AND WHY WE KEEP
- [01:05:37.400]FIGHTING.
- [01:05:37.767]THAT'S THE IDEAL.
- [01:05:40.400]AND UNTIL WE GET THERE, IT MEANS
- [01:05:43.701]WE HAVE WORK TO DO.
- [01:05:45.300]>> THANK YOU, OUR NEXT QUESTION
- [01:05:47.634]IS FROM THE TWITTER FEED.
- [01:05:50.334]AS A HIGH SCHOOL TEACHER, I'M
- [01:05:51.934]CURIOUS OF WHAT THINGS YOUR
- [01:05:55.067]TEACHERS DID THAT HAD THE
- [01:05:57.133]GREATEST IMPACT ON YOU.
- [01:06:02.167]>> I ACTUALLY THINK THE BIGGEST
- [01:06:05.367]THINGS THAT MY TEACHERS DID,
- [01:06:08.234]FIRST, TEACH TEACHER --
- [01:06:12.901]TEACHERS, THANK YOU FOR YOUR
- [01:06:15.267]SERVICE.
- [01:06:15.601]ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS
- [01:06:17.000]THE TEACHERS DID FOR ME, WAS
- [01:06:20.567]THEY NEVER ACCEPTED EXCUSES.
- [01:06:23.667]WHAT I MEAN BY THAT IS THIS.
- [01:06:26.367]I THINK I HAD SOME TEACHERS IN
- [01:06:28.234]MY LIFE, SOME WERE AMAZING,
- [01:06:31.100]AMAZING PEOPLE WHO HELPED SHAPE
- [01:06:33.734]ME AND I THINK I HAD SOME, I
- [01:06:35.801]WISH I COULD HAVE HAD A
- [01:06:36.934]CONVERSATION WITH.
- [01:06:40.234]AND FOR A LOT OF THEM, IT WAS
- [01:06:43.501]NOT MALICIOUS.
- [01:06:44.734]FOR A LOT OF THEM, THEY WERE
- [01:06:46.801]DOING WHAT THEY THOUGHT WAS IN
- [01:06:48.467]MY BEST INTEREST, BUT I NEVER
- [01:06:50.534]HAD TO MAKE EXCUSES, BECAUSE
- [01:06:54.901]THEY WERE TOO BUSY MAKING THEM
- [01:06:56.434]FOR ME.
- [01:06:57.801]YOU HEARD OF WHAT HAPPENED TO
- [01:06:59.701]HIS FATHER, RIGHT?
- [01:07:01.968]YOU DO WHAT HAPPENED IN HIS
- [01:07:04.801]NEIGHBORHOOD LAST WEEKEND.
- [01:07:06.167]YOU HEARD ABOUT HIS UNCLE, GOT
- [01:07:09.968]ARRESTED, RIGHT?
- [01:07:11.334]THEY WERE SO BUSY MAKING EXCUSES
- [01:07:13.868]FOR ME, THAT I DIDN'T HAVE TO
- [01:07:15.634]MAKE THEM.
- [01:07:17.033]I HAD NO TIME TO MAKE THEM FOR
- [01:07:21.367]MYSELF.
- [01:07:21.701]I WISH FOR EVERY TEACHER AND ALL
- [01:07:23.701]MY BEST TEACHERS, ONE OF THE
- [01:07:25.534]THINGS THEY HAD FOR ME, THEY
- [01:07:27.601]UNDERSTOOD THAT YOU'RE NEVER
- [01:07:28.868]DOING ME A FAVOR WHEN YOU TELL
- [01:07:30.601]ME I CANNOT COMPETE WITH SOMEONE
- [01:07:33.367]ELSE.
- [01:07:33.834]YOU'RE NEVER DOING ME A FAVOR BY
- [01:07:37.167]TELLING ME THAT MY BAR IS LOWER
- [01:07:39.634]THAN THE OTHER STUDENT.
- [01:07:41.634]YOU'RE NEVER DOING ME A FAVOR BY
- [01:07:44.567]LOWERING MY BAR OF EXPECTATIONS.
- [01:07:46.601]YOU'RE NOT HELPING ME OUT, OR
- [01:07:49.133]DOING ME A FAVOR.
- [01:07:51.167]BY TELLING ME I CAN'T COMPETE.
- [01:07:54.901]BOOKER T. WASHINGTON SAID, IF
- [01:07:57.734]YOU BREAK A MAN'S SPIRIT, YOU
- [01:08:01.067]DON'T HAVE TO ESCORT HIM TO THE
- [01:08:03.601]BACK DOOR, HE'LL WALK THERE
- [01:08:06.701]HIMSELF.
- [01:08:09.200]AND SO YOU THINK THAT THE THING,
- [01:08:11.334]IF I PUT ONE THING THE GREATEST
- [01:08:13.901]TEACHERS DID FOR ME, WAS THEY
- [01:08:17.334]LOVED ME, AND THEY CARED FOR ME.
- [01:08:21.033]AND EVEN IF THEY UNDERSTOOD MY
- [01:08:24.600]SITUATION MAY HAVE BEEN
- [01:08:25.501]DIFFERENT THAN A LOT OF KIDS IN
- [01:08:27.434]SCHOOL, THEY NEVER LET THAT BE
- [01:08:30.501]MY DEFICIENCY.
- [01:08:32.634]THEY NEVER LET THAT BE MY
- [01:08:36.934]HINDRANCE.
- [01:08:37.300]THEY SAID, I UNDERSTAND IT, AND
- [01:08:38.634]I ACKNOWLEDGE IT AND I FEEL FOR
- [01:08:42.501]YOU, AND I STILL EXPECT YOU TO
- [01:08:44.434]PERFORM.
- [01:08:44.801]THEY SET MY TONE IN MY MIND THAT
- [01:08:49.067]I SHOULD NEVER, EVER PUT MYSELF
- [01:08:52.466]IN A POSITION OR EXPECT ANYTHING
- [01:08:55.234]LOWER THAN ANYONE ELSE AROUND
- [01:08:58.167]ME.
- [01:08:58.434]I'M JUST AS GOOD -- AND IN FACT,
- [01:09:00.767]THEY SAID, BECAUSE OF THE THINGS
- [01:09:02.267]YOU'VE SEEN AND GONE THROUGH, I
- [01:09:04.600]SHOULD THINK IN MANY WAYS,
- [01:09:06.600]YOU'RE MORE PREPARED, BECAUSE
- [01:09:08.634]THAT'S YOUR ARMOR.
- [01:09:11.067]YOU'LL NEVER SEE ANYTHING AGAIN
- [01:09:12.734]IN LIFE THAT'LL MAKE YOU
- [01:09:15.033]FLIFRMG.
- [01:09:15.367]AND THEY'RE RIGHT.
- [01:09:16.334]AND THAT'S YOUR SECRET WEAPON.
- [01:09:18.701]>> THANK YOU.
- [01:09:19.367]SEVERAL OF THE MEMBERS OF THE
- [01:09:21.501]AUDIENCE WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF
- [01:09:23.167]THE OTHER WES READ YOUR BOOK AND
- [01:09:24.968]WHAT WAS HIS REACTION?
- [01:09:25.834]>> YES, YES, THANK YOU.
- [01:09:27.399]HE HAS, AND IN FACT, I TELL YOU
- [01:09:30.834]THIS IS AN EVIDENCE OF WHERE HE
- [01:09:32.968]IS.
- [01:09:33.267]HE READ THE BOOK THREE OR FOUR
- [01:09:36.234]MONTHS BEFORE IT SENT TO COME
- [01:09:37.901]OUT.
- [01:09:38.367]I SENT HIM A BOUND COPY OF THE
- [01:09:41.334]BOOK, AND IT WAS SENT BACK TO
- [01:09:43.466]ME.
- [01:09:43.734]IT WAS A STAMPING THING, THIS IS
- [01:09:45.501]A PRISON.
- [01:09:46.533]THE WAY HE READ THE BOOK BEFORE
- [01:09:48.901]THE BOOK CAME OUT, I HAD TO MAIL
- [01:09:52.968]HIM 15 PAGES AT A TIME.
- [01:09:55.067]THAT'S HOW HE READ THE BOOK.
- [01:09:57.834]WES IS CURRENTLY IN YEAR 14.
- [01:10:01.133]OF A LIFE SENTENCE WITHOUT
- [01:10:03.634]PAROLE.
- [01:10:03.968]WES IS IN A MAXIMUM SECURITY
- [01:10:09.067]FACILITY, I DON'T KNOW WHAT TIME
- [01:10:10.234]-- IF I LOOKED AT A WATCH, I
- [01:10:13.167]COULD TELL YOU WHAT HE'S
- [01:10:14.534]PROBABLY DOING RIGHT NOW, BUT
- [01:10:15.901]THE REASON I CAN TELL YOU WHAT
- [01:10:18.133]HE'S DOING RIGHT NOW, I HAVE HIS
- [01:10:20.067]SCHEDULE MEMORIZED AND IT
- [01:10:22.834]DOESN'T CHANGE.
- [01:10:23.834]AND I REMEMBER AFTER HE READ THE
- [01:10:26.667]BOOK, I ASKED HIM WHAT HE
- [01:10:29.200]THOUGHT, AND HE SAID, HE HAD TOO
- [01:10:30.601]MANY OPINIONS, ONE, HE SAID IT
- [01:10:33.067]WAS AMAZING HOW MUCH RESEARCH
- [01:10:34.601]WENT ENDOIT.
- [01:10:35.767]I DID HUNDREDS OF HOURS OF
- [01:10:38.801]INTERVIEWS WITH WES, HIS FRIENDS
- [01:10:40.701]AND FAMILY, TO GET THE FACTS AND
- [01:10:43.534]THE FEEL OF THE STORY RIGHT.
- [01:10:46.868]AND THE SECOND THING IS, IT'S
- [01:10:49.167]AMAZING HOW LITTLE HE'S DONE
- [01:10:52.000]WITH HIS LIFE.
- [01:10:53.834]AND THE THING THAT'S REALLY
- [01:10:55.467]TAKEN ME ABOUT IT, IS HIS
- [01:10:57.801]REACTION TO THE FEEDBACK TO IT.
- [01:11:03.267]THE FACT THAT IT'S -- WE
- [01:11:05.234]RECEIVED THOUSANDS OF LETTERS
- [01:11:06.734]FROM PARENTS AND TEACHERS AND
- [01:11:07.467]STUDENTS.
- [01:11:10.100]HOW IT'S MADE PART OF CURRICULUM
- [01:11:12.567]IN SCHOOL DISTRICTS.
- [01:11:14.767]I GOT A LETTER FROM A TOOEFRP
- [01:11:21.901]LAST YEAR.
- [01:11:25.701]-- TEACHER LAST YEAR.
- [01:11:30.000]AND THE STUDENTS SAY THIS IS
- [01:11:31.534]ABOUT ME, MY DAD AND MY MOM.
- [01:11:34.601]AND THEY WERE TELLING THEM OF
- [01:11:37.334]THE STORY AND ONE OF THE KIDS
- [01:11:39.067]RAISED THEIR HANDS AND THE BOOK
- [01:11:41.267]IS ABOUT MY DAD.
- [01:11:43.634]AND SHE SAID, A LOT OF PEOPLE
- [01:11:46.667]SAY THAT, AND YOU'RE DISTURBING
- [01:11:49.300]CLASS, AND SHE REALIZED THE BOY
- [01:11:52.100]IN THE CLASS IS WES'S OLDEST
- [01:11:56.133]SON.
- [01:11:56.601]AND IMMEDIATELY AS SHE REALIZED
- [01:11:58.234]THAT, SHE APOLOGIZED, AND SAID,
- [01:12:01.267]I'M SO SORRY, I WAS NOT TRYING
- [01:12:03.200]TO EMBARRASS YOU, WE CAN PICK
- [01:12:05.234]ANOTHER BOOK, AND HE TOLD HER,
- [01:12:07.734]NO, MY DAD WANTS PEOPLE TO KNOW
- [01:12:09.901]HIS STORY.
- [01:12:11.901]AND SHE PROCEEDED TO TEACH THE
- [01:12:16.067]OTHER WES MOORE IN HER CLASSROOM
- [01:12:19.000]WITH HIS OLDEST SON IN HER
- [01:12:22.767]CLASS.
- [01:12:23.133]WES KNOWS THIS IS NOT GOING TO
- [01:12:24.734]IMPACT HIS LIFE.
- [01:12:25.701]BUT I THINK HE DOES HAVE A REAL
- [01:12:29.100]HOPE THAT HOPEFULLY IT CAN
- [01:12:31.300]IMPACT LIVES COMING UP BEHIND
- [01:12:32.767]HIM AND HELP THEM TO UNDERSTAND,
- [01:12:35.133]WHEN HE SAID, HE WAS
- [01:12:36.200]RECOMMENDING THAT I WRITE IT, HE
- [01:12:38.734]SAID, IF YOU CAN SHOW PEOPLE THE
- [01:12:42.067]CONSEQUENCES FOR THEIR DECISION
- [01:12:44.133]AND IS ALSO SHOW PEOPLE THE
- [01:12:45.834]NEIGHBORHOODS THAT THE DECISIONS
- [01:12:47.167]ARE BEING MADE IN, THEN YOU
- [01:12:49.667]SHOULD DO IT.
- [01:12:51.701]AND THAT WAS THE THOUGHT THE
- [01:12:55.300]ENTIRE BOOK IS BEHIND.
- [01:12:56.033]>> THANK YOU, AND BEFORE HE
- [01:12:57.601]TAKES THE FINAL QUESTION, I WANT
- [01:12:59.400]TO REMIND YOU TO MARK YOUR
- [01:13:03.100]CALENDAR FOR THE NEXT E.N.
- [01:13:05.033]THOMPSON FORUM EVEN.
- [01:13:08.868]PLEASE PLAN TO JOIN US, WES, ONE
- [01:13:12.100]LAST QUESTION.
- [01:13:13.667]WHAT'S THE BEST THING YOUR MOM
- [01:13:15.567]TAUGHT YOU TO BE THE MAN YOU ARE
- [01:13:17.534]TODAY?
- [01:13:17.868]>> OH MY GOSH.
- [01:13:27.300]DID SHE TWEET THAT IN?
- [01:13:28.467][LAUGHTER]
- [01:13:40.133]>> THIS IS A VERY PERSONAL
- [01:13:42.234]ANSWER FOR ME.
- [01:13:44.267]IT'S NOT TRYING TO TELL ANYONE
- [01:13:45.501]ELSE WHAT TO DO OR THINK.
- [01:13:50.767]I THINK THE MOST IMPORTANT THING
- [01:13:52.701]SHE'S EVER TAUGHT ME AND TRIED
- [01:13:54.367]TO TEACH ME AND TRY TO MAKE ME
- [01:13:57.267]AND LED BY EXAMPLE IS SHE WANTED
- [01:13:58.834]TO TEACH ME TO LOVE GOD.
- [01:14:05.067]I THINK ABOUT MY JOURNEY, AND
- [01:14:08.734]REALLY MY JOURNEY AND FAITH HAS
- [01:14:12.267]NOT ALWAYS BEEN A STRAIGHT LINE.
- [01:14:15.000]WHERE MY GRANDFATHER WAS A
- [01:14:18.000]MINISTER, AND WE HAD TO GO TO
- [01:14:20.033]CHURCH TO HEAR HIM PREACH AND
- [01:14:22.000]EVERY TIME I HEARD HIM PREACH,
- [01:14:24.067]THE ONLY THING I WAS LOOKED FOR,
- [01:14:25.968]I WOULD LOOK AT THE CLOCK AND
- [01:14:28.634]HOPE HE WAS DONE BY KICK OFF.
- [01:14:35.267]AND -- IT WASN'T UNTIL I GOT
- [01:14:37.334]OLDER THAT I REALIZED THAT THE
- [01:14:41.100]TIME FELT I WAS MOST ALONE, WERE
- [01:14:44.234]THE TIMES THAT I WAS MOST BEING
- [01:14:47.767]SUPPORTED.
- [01:14:48.167]AND THE TIMES THAT I FELT LIKE
- [01:14:52.267]SO MANY PEOPLE HAD ALWAYS GIVEN
- [01:14:55.534]UP ON ME, WAS HE WAS THERE TO
- [01:14:58.901]REMIND ME HE WOULD NEVER GIVE UP
- [01:15:02.334]ON ME.
- [01:15:03.767]WHEN I WENT TO AFGHANISTAN, MY
- [01:15:07.434]GRANDPARENTS GAVE ME A POCKET
- [01:15:10.634]BIBLE, A LITTLE BIBLE, AND I
- [01:15:13.667]KEPT IT INSIDE MY FLAK VEST,
- [01:15:15.801]OVER MY HEART AND EVERY MISSION
- [01:15:17.767]WE WENT ON, I PUT IT INSIDE MY
- [01:15:20.601]FLAK VEST.
- [01:15:22.167]AND INSIDE OF THE LITTLE BIBLE,
- [01:15:25.067]MY GRANDPARENTS WROTE, HAVE
- [01:15:26.567]FAITH, NOT FEAR.
- [01:15:29.634]AND I REMEMBER, I WOULD RECITE
- [01:15:32.901]THAT TO MYSELF BEFORE EVERY
- [01:15:34.334]MISSION WE WENT OP.
- [01:15:36.067]HAVE FAITH, NOT FEAR.
- [01:15:38.067]HAVE FAITH, NOT FEAR.
- [01:15:42.267]I'M CONVINCED THAT THAT WAS AN
- [01:15:44.634]UMBRELLA THAT SAT OVER US AS WE
- [01:15:46.200]WENT ON OUR MISSIONS.
- [01:15:50.667]AND I THINK MY MOTHER HAS TAUGHT
- [01:15:55.701]ME A WHOLE LOT OF LESSONS, THAT
- [01:15:58.400]I'M GLAD SHE TAUGHT ME, AND
- [01:16:00.634]SHE'S LIVED HER LIFE AND LIVED
- [01:16:02.968]AN EXAMPLE IF I'M HALF A PARENT
- [01:16:07.033]THAT SHE IS THEN I'M DOING A
- [01:16:08.834]PRETTY GOOD JOB.
- [01:16:12.501]BUT I THINK CONSISTENTLY
- [01:16:14.000]REMINDING ME THAT I'M NOT ALONE
- [01:16:16.267]AND TO LOVE GOD, THAT IS HAS
- [01:16:19.400]BEEN A LESSON THAT I THINK IS
- [01:16:21.133]MOST SERVED AS MY FOUNDATION
- [01:16:23.133]WITH EVERYTHING THAT I TRY TO
- [01:16:24.100]DO.
- [01:16:25.334][APPLAUSE]
- [01:16:44.801]>> LADIES AND GENTLEMEN, THANK
- [01:16:46.067]YOU VERY MUCH, WE'RE SO
- [01:16:48.767]APPRECIATIVE OF WES COMING HERE
- [01:16:50.868]THIS EVENING.
- [01:16:53.434][APPLAUSE]
- [01:16:59.000]>> THANK YOU VERY MUCH LADIES
- [01:17:00.067]AND GENTLEMEN, HAVE A GOOD
- [01:17:02.200]EVENING AND PLEASE TRAVEL
- [01:17:03.000]SAFELY, THANK YOU.
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